HiFlyin21 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 I hope someone out there can help me with this, My girlfriend broke up with me a week before our 3 year anniversary. Needless to say I didn't take it well. Initially she stated that she was starting to see me as a friend. We talked a couple days later, and she said that she still loves me more than anything, but right now would like to "establish" herself, and focus on school and basketball. (We went to the same college and started dating when I was a junior and she was a fresman). I've since graduated and this is her senior year. We talked about everything and she said to give her until she graduated. That is next year in May....which is 7 months from now. She repeatedly stated that she just didn't want to be in a relationship at this moment. After that last conversation (over a week ago) we haven't talked since. I never told her we were going "no contact"....i just did it. A couple days ago she sent me an old picture of us. I didn't respond as I didn't see the point of it. I must note that in our almost 3 years together, she has done this two times before. The first time she wanted "space", the second time she wanted to be "single" for awhile. And this is the most recent time. Those previous times never lasted very long as she'd come right back to me. I know this may sound like she had someone else, but I honestly and truly believe she doesn't or didn't. When things got hard for her or us, she tended to want "space". But maybe i've been a fool this whole time. I know I haven't been the best gf, but I was/am committed to us. When things got hard, I fought to keep us together. I know relationships take work and I try and keep that in the back of my mind all the time. We've never had infidelity issues as far as I know. Just a lot of arguing. Our communication needs work. I feel like I'm in limbo. I don't know if I should finally let go or hold on. She hasn't said we are over, and every time I suggest we move on she cries and says that isn't what she wants to do. All I hear is how much she loves me and wants to be with me. So mixed signals really. I don't know which way to go in this situation. However, I do know that I want to be with her. What should I do?
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