mike5770 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Let's face it the fact we are on here shows we care, have class, and are good people. I know my ex is really stupid I am a great loving guy, have a great job, was ready to love her and her kids for the rest of her life, gave her the vacation of a lifetime but oh well she blew me off... ..her loss I cannot worry about her and none of you should. Have a nice life honey you blew a great opportunity. Good luck! 2
Harradin Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Totally agree, just posted something similar on my thread. "I realised that my ex chose to leave, I did nothing wrong, why should I feel bad about something that isn't really my problem?! Plus she downgraded (she left me for my so called friend who is a fat IT technician [i could do what he does easily] whos talents are a mechanical mind and manipulation/backstabbing others over me whos muscular, do judo/kickboxing, race in motorsport and studying Maths at Uni. So at the end of the day she made a big mistake and its her loss, I can do far better then her, so if she comes crawling back, I'm not taking her back." From where I stand my ex is a total idiot, I'm far too good for her so why bother being upset about it?! 1
todreaminblue Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 I dont think my ex is an idiot or i wouldn't have been with him in the first place....i think we were not meant to stay together or even possibly be together ...i think he stuffed up......alot .....and i shouldnt have forgiven over and over.....or put up with abuse...i take responsibility for that ...... i have a tribe of kids so i have no regrets with my exes(certainly dotn regret that we arent together now) i have something wonderful that came out of difficulties and darkness little slices of happiness.....sometimes everything happens for a reason... what i feel now.....is excited.......like i have been given a second chance to find a bright new life for myself and my family....if that includes some one for me then i will welcome that person with my heart clear......but if I don't have that special person in my life, ill survive and do something that i have always wanted to do......for myself......i still have issues....but my past is my past.....and one day that past isnt going to hurt so much..as far as my ex goes i dont hurt anymore... tomorrow.... is brighter than yesterday to me and i am only looking forward......deb
puzzled1 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 I dont think my ex is an idiot or i wouldn't have been with him in the first place....i think we were not meant to stay together or even possibly be together ...i think he stuffed up......alot .....and i shouldnt have forgiven over and over.....or put up with abuse...i take responsibility for that ...... i have a tribe of kids so i have no regrets with my exes(certainly dotn regret that we arent together now) i have something wonderful that came out of difficulties and darkness little slices of happiness.....sometimes everything happens for a reason... what i feel now.....is excited.......like i have been given a second chance to find a bright new life for myself and my family....if that includes some one for me then i will welcome that person with my heart clear......but if I don't have that special person in my life, ill survive and do something that i have always wanted to do......for myself......i still have issues....but my past is my past.....and one day that past isnt going to hurt so much..as far as my ex goes i dont hurt anymore... tomorrow.... is brighter than yesterday to me and i am only looking forward......deb That made my morning!! Thank you for that
Author mike5770 Posted November 9, 2012 Author Posted November 9, 2012 Totally agree, just posted something similar on my thread. "I realised that my ex chose to leave, I did nothing wrong, why should I feel bad about something that isn't really my problem?! Plus she downgraded (she left me for my so called friend who is a fat IT technician [i could do what he does easily] whos talents are a mechanical mind and manipulation/backstabbing others over me whos muscular, do judo/kickboxing, race in motorsport and studying Maths at Uni. So at the end of the day she made a big mistake and its her loss, I can do far better then her, so if she comes crawling back, I'm not taking her back." From where I stand my ex is a total idiot, I'm far too good for her so why bother being upset about it?! I feel the same way...I have a great job work out everyday and most importantly treated her like gold rather than absolute **** like her ex husband. Yet in her brain I am not good enough. She basically struck oil on her property and sold it for $1 because it ruined her plants. I can't fight stupidity.
Harradin Posted November 9, 2012 Posted November 9, 2012 I feel the same way...I have a great job work out everyday and most importantly treated her like gold rather than absolute **** like her ex husband. Yet in her brain I am not good enough. She basically struck oil on her property and sold it for $1 because it ruined her plants. I can't fight stupidity. Sometimes people don't realise what they have until they have nothing.
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