TechBud Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 (edited) Alright a little background info, a couple of my friends would go to a bar often and come back talking about this bartender, so much so that I got curious to see this girl. They convince me to go, which wasn't to hard after all this talk.lol We get there and she is cute, and they introduce me but I don't just sit there and hit on her like they do. I went and played pool, and tell myself shes a bartender its her job. But I would catch her looking, and at one point she said to my friend and note: loud enough for me to hear it, " I thought I rejected you enough, get the picture" then she looked at me. Which I thought were good signs, but was like, bartender, I don't hit on bartenders. Well weeks go by, finally Halloween weekend comes around and I finally want to party and me and my friends go out. We end up seeing her off work, out and about. Well I just play it cool, but she keeps coming up to my friend, note: the friend she supposedly rejected. Which I thought was weird. But anyways I tell my friend lets get out of here, well he runs up to her and says were going to leave, she says hold on, she runs to the bar and buys 4 drinks and gives them to her girlfriends and says shes leaving. Which of course I seen as a green light, because I know shes not following him, and on the walk she kept asking me questions. Anyways a lot of green lights, I get her number at the end of the night. But call her a couple days later, no answer, but left a message saying I wanted to go get something to eat. No call back, couple days later I call, no answer. The only thing I can think of that might of pissed her off, is that she did see me out the next night with another girl and we were laughing and having a good time, but we are just friends. Should I keep trying or give up? I thought about maybe she is to scared to answer....thought about sending a text like " hey, hey, I'm a nice guy, just saying....;)" Not sure what to do, what do you all think? Edited November 2, 2012 by TechBud
River Rain Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 You left a message and called back...it's up to her now, I wouldn't push it any further. You never know her reasoning, but you let her know your interest, it's up to her now. I would assume she wasn't interested at this point though.
Author TechBud Posted November 3, 2012 Author Posted November 3, 2012 Not what I wanted to hear...but I know in the back of my head its right. Still kinda want to throw that text out there, but will refrain.
River Rain Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Not what I wanted to hear...but I know in the back of my head its right. Still kinda want to throw that text out there, but will refrain. Sorry, I'm direct...it's up to you, I mean, you can still throw the text out, but be prepared for no answer. I just think it could be overkill.
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