aram7 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 is it wrong to date multiple women at the same time? i always wondered if its okay to go on as many dates with a bunch of different women here and there without making any intimacy or physical contact. just hanging out as normal people would. there are alot of women in my life that i would like to get to know better through hanging out, whether having coffee or going to movies. and then i thought about kissing or cuddling. would these be wrong to do if i just wanted to become a little closer with them to get to know them more than a friend. not saying im gonna start a rampage and go have sex with every girl i see, im just saying as a simple date with no relationship yet announced. i am kind of indecisive right now with which girl i want to be in a relationship with, and just want to test the waters here.
mysteryscape Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 Aram, if you want to have "hangout dates" you probably can. But if you starting kissing and making out with multiple of these hangout dates, you're probably headed for trouble!
NeoGen85 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I have multi-dated in the past. In fact, I have plenty of friends; both men and women who do. It's not bad at all, but I do find that there are some boundaries. The one thing I don't do is try to have a sexual encounters. This form of dating is really good is you're exploring what you want in a future love one. In the past year I did a lot of it and learned what I want out of a woman. With that said dates have become less, and I've been totally focused on myself waiting to come across the lucky lady to make me a lucky man.
rainfall Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I don't think there is really anything wrong with it, as long as you aren't lying to any of them and telling them you are only dating them. Just be upfront with them and tell them you want to keep it causal. I also really wouldn't see anything wrong with kissing them or cuddling with them, but if you start sleeping with all of them you are probably asking for trouble.
NeoGen85 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 And just hope one of those lady friends you're dating starts to fill up your schedule more in comparison to all the others. That'll tell you who you're really interested in and when to stop multi-dating to pursue a possible relationship.
yongyong Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 It's like asking 'What kind of porns are ok to watch' Do whatever you want. you don't have to ask or tell anyone. You might feel guilty by watching some dirty porns. guess what? everyone else is doing the same thing. they are not just telling you. If you confess about it, you will make yourself just look bad. does it make sense???
pathetic1999 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 I had this discussion recently with a friend, I don't think it's wrong even to sleep with all of them! I apparently am the minority here but with all of my friends (girls and boys) they all agree so be careful who you are dating out there! My point is this, assume you are not exclusive unless it has been discussed.
bac Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 is it wrong to date multiple women at the same time? i always wondered if its okay to go on as many dates with a bunch of different women here and there without making any intimacy or physical contact. just hanging out as normal people would. there are alot of women in my life that i would like to get to know better through hanging out, whether having coffee or going to movies. and then i thought about kissing or cuddling. would these be wrong to do if i just wanted to become a little closer with them to get to know them more than a friend. not saying im gonna start a rampage and go have sex with every girl i see, im just saying as a simple date with no relationship yet announced. i am kind of indecisive right now with which girl i want to be in a relationship with, and just want to test the waters here. Multiple dating is fine if you and your partners are into that. You can have sex with multiple people if they enjoy multiple dating as much as you do.
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