Vikki_26 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 (edited) Hi all, So he messaged me on a dating site, we then added each other on Facebook chatted and got on really well. Exchanged number and then had our first date last night. Aww his lovely, i feel like his out of my league. He probably is to a certain extent lol:love: He was such a gent, seems such a lovely person. He looked in to my eyes for a long stare a few times and wow i felt like i was on cloud 9:bunny: Chatted for two hours, and then went to cinema. He then walked me back to my car and went to kiss me on the lips but i wasnt expecting it plus too shy too lol so pecked him near them haha! Then he gave me a lovely hug and wished me a safe journey home. He then texted me when I got home saying 'Hey, was nice to meet you today, hope your home ok, night xxx' Now just curious, as i am new to this dating, usually fell in love with friends. So what i wondered was how long do guys generally leave it to text you if they are interested in you? Edited November 2, 2012 by Vikki_26
Ninjainpajamas Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 Few days or less is high interest... Three days he's being careful/systematic...questionable level of interest Anything more than that and you're an option. 3
SJC2008 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 (edited) If you're new to OLD I'll make it easy: Keep your head on a swivel. There are two constants with OLD #1) Most men fail at it an many quit before getting a single date. #2) The men who do get dates are known for the 3rd date pump and dump! What do #1 and #2 have in common? It's simple. Men want easy sex so they (usually better looking men online) message woman who they find attractive enough to have sex with but KNOW are a few points below them and the girl get's excited because some good looking guy wants to date her then gets pumped and dumped by date 3. This is where #1 comes into play. This woman who just signed up gets a nice ego boost from all the hot guys messaging her she ignores the guys who if she met IRL she'd date. Hot guy ruins it for everyone;{ As you can tell I'm very jaded from OLD but this is an unfortunate truth. Yes there are men and women who have realistic expectations and not all men use OLD for that but it's a small percentage. Edited November 3, 2012 by SJC2008 spelling
Eternal Sunshine Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Asked out within 24 hours of date with high interest men. In about 95% of those, they set the second date by the end of first.
ScreamingTrees Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 If the guy doesn't subscribe to theories that a girl will magically lose interest if you don't wait a day or two to respond, he may respond the next day. Go with your gut, and don't try to rationalize things. Sounds like you had a good time! Hopefully he feels the same..
Author Vikki_26 Posted November 3, 2012 Author Posted November 3, 2012 Hes texted me this evening :D And like me said he hasnt stopped thinking about me since our meet and we are meeting again this week!
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