dreamstate83 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 only 2 days after finding out my ex of 3 months has met her new boyfriend. And you know what? I'm not sad today. I'm not angry. I'm actually.....annoyed. I'm annoyed that she decided to cut and run from a good thing without ever even voicing a single concern or talking about issues and working together to fix the relationship. Annoyed that she spent 2 months stringing me along just so that she could get me out of her system before dating a new guy. Feeling annoyed makes me smile because you know what? I don't care if she ever messages me again even if we've known each other 8 years. I kind of like this feeling today. 1
Tree_Salmon Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 only 2 days after finding out my ex of 3 months has met her new boyfriend. And you know what? I'm not sad today. I'm not angry. I'm actually.....annoyed. I'm annoyed that she decided to cut and run from a good thing without ever even voicing a single concern or talking about issues and working together to fix the relationship. Annoyed that she spent 2 months stringing me along just so that she could get me out of her system before dating a new guy. Feeling annoyed makes me smile because you know what? I don't care if she ever messages me again even if we've known each other 8 years. I kind of like this feeling today. Well, it would annoy the sh*t out of me too but as long as you see it as a positive thing, you'll be ok. Chances are the next guy will see these same issues and it'll end the same way, and if it doesn't he will be miserable. She didn't want to change so she found another guy who will tolerate her for a while.
puzzled1 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 That is a good feeling! Get out and enjoy it because come tomorrow that feeling might be gone. Happy birthday!!
CptSaveAho Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 So she needed your permission to breakup with you? You people kill me! I don't understand. So you are a good thing, you might not be right for her. She did you a favor. Stop talking out of your butt and find a "good thing" for you
Author dreamstate83 Posted November 2, 2012 Author Posted November 2, 2012 So she needed your permission to breakup with you? You people kill me! I don't understand. So you are a good thing, you might not be right for her. She did you a favor. Stop talking out of your butt and find a "good thing" for you I don't even know what to say to this post. I'd have been fine if she just said "I want to break up and not get back together", even though I'd still wish she'd be willing to talk about what was bothering her. That's not what she did.
CptSaveAho Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 Shes talking out of her butt like you are now... "I would never talk to her again blah blah blah but im stalking her online and I find out she has a new boyfriend so I would never give her the light of day." Simple facts... 1. Relationship is over (doesnt matter why) .... anything that comes out of her mouth is bs just like the bs you are spewing 2. Move on Do you not understand your own situation? You moved half way around the world to live with her, didnt have a job, depressed, etc. I dont know about you but I wouldn't date or stay in a relationship with a female of the same situation. I threw away my Captain Save a Hoe Costume a couple years ago. In essence thats what she felt she was to you... she was your captain save a hoe. Its very unattractive for a guy to be in your position. Focus on your own shortcomings and stop worrying about her.
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