Texans23 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 SORRY FOR THE LONG POST. I will try to keep it short. Me, and her dated for 2 1/2 years it was a good relationship, both loved each other. No sketchy things going on. We broke up because she was tired of nagging about me getting a job. And it pushed her away. I go to a university, and do things regularly, have money to buy her things, and treat her well. So that was never the problem. But she just wanted to be ambitious I assume. We have been broken up for 3 months and I have changed with a job and everything and she always says things like "Glad we broke up and then you do this stuff", and she’s impressed. (There is more to everything, but I am trying to keep it short) Well after 3 weeks of me not contacting her she texted me, it was her being on and off and she wanted to be friends, and wanted me in her life still. She called me drunk saying she missed me and all this and I was tired of the games told her I didn’t want to be her friend, and once again she came back 2 weeks later. From there on things have been good. We text regularly she told me she misses me. I ASKED HER on a date and to start from new in a few months when we're are both free. She lives 2 hours away from me right now. She said she thinks that’s a great idea. Any who then one night she wanted me to come up she missed me so I went up. And we talked all night, she said she still misses me and loves me. Anyways a few days later she told me to "come take care of her "i told her I would, but I have a test the next day. She said that’s fine. Then a couple days later I asked her if she wanted me to visit and she said she does, but she’s busy this weekend and she’s going to be in my town in a week if I wanted to hang. Then she goes on to say "plus us hanging out defeats the purpose of the date in a few months" WHICH got me confused. And then she asked if she could come over the next Friday for a place to stay. Because she has her best friend’s wedding to go to with her family. She has lots of friends up her too. So I don’t know why she doesn’t stay with them. If I bring things up sometimes like “are you still coming to stay” she gives me answer of she’s not a 100 percent sure. I just get confused Notes - she doesn’t want to date anybody else right nor is she the type of girl to have sex with anybody until she knows them well. Which she doesn’t want to do, because she obviously still cares about me. Please don’t even comment about that, because that’s not the issue and I know her very well. THERE IS NO ONE ELSE IN THE PICTURE Points- She is the one texting me first or calling She is the one who brings up our past relationship She still gets jealous, and asked me about other women a lot. I The question is, are things going fine, and I'm just being insecure and paranoid. I just don’t know how long to continue this. I do love her, but I want instant gratification. (Yes I want her back) Thank you!
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