verhrzn Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 I don't know to be honest. Guys can just be really awkward. I don't know why that guy could be angry. I was just shocked that this girl came to talk to me, so I reacted in a surprised manner. Haha, well, I'm 99% certain he's angry because he was getting bothered by an ugly fat girl. Come on, you've seen it even here on the forums.... guys want girls to approach, but get pissed off when it isn't the girl they want. Hell, some men get mad at ugly women just for existing in the world, going about our business, because it.... somehow insults their vision, I guess. 2
somedude81 Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Oh, I forgot to say that I've never slept with a woman I met at a bar, club, school on the street etc. I've only been with two types of women.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Haha, well, I'm 99% certain he's angry because he was getting bothered by an ugly fat girl. Come on, you've seen it even here on the forums.... guys want girls to approach, but get pissed off when it isn't the girl they want. Hell, some men get mad at ugly women just for existing in the world, going about our business, because it.... somehow insults their vision, I guess. "Our"? You're not fat. Sincerely, The most pessimistic man in the world. As much negativity and hostility I have for 99% of humanity, if you were fat you know I'd tell you.
Author ThaWholigan Posted November 6, 2012 Author Posted November 6, 2012 Haha, well, I'm 99% certain he's angry because he was getting bothered by an ugly fat girl. Come on, you've seen it even here on the forums.... guys want girls to approach, but get pissed off when it isn't the girl they want. Hell, some men get mad at ugly women just for existing in the world, going about our business, because it.... somehow insults their vision, I guess. I know, I hear you. It's laziness on their part - sometimes if you want something, go for it. Proactive. I applaud you for at least going after what you want, quite a lot of girls do not admittedly. But I've been approached quite a few times so...... As for ugly - I dunno. Everybody has a type, and even "ugly" people can fall into that type. At least I have realized. In recent times, I see a lot of women who don't like me, but of the ones that do, a few of them have been REALLY hot. Even my FB is hot.
verhrzn Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 "Our"? You're not fat. Sincerely, The most pessimistic man in the world. As much negativity and hostility I have for 99% of humanity, if you were fat you know I'd tell you. Oh, what the hell ever. Guys round these parts call me a whale. Guys are all for indulging their shallow tendencies (telling 14 year olds on Youtube how ugly they are, for instance) until they get called on it, and then it's all back-pedaling.
Author ThaWholigan Posted November 6, 2012 Author Posted November 6, 2012 Oh, what the hell ever. Guys round these parts call me a whale. Guys are all for indulging their shallow tendencies (telling 14 year olds on Youtube how ugly they are, for instance) until they get called on it, and then it's all back-pedaling. Who called you a whale? You look like a normal 5 foot white girl. Not fat, or ugly. Just.....well, normal. You'd do well in England I reckon, if I took you to my local pub, them white boys would be like "coooooorrr"
ascendotum Posted November 6, 2012 Posted November 6, 2012 Oh, what the hell ever. Guys round these parts call me a whale. I've seen a couple of your pics. You live in the US not the EU. The fattest country. Either you are posting old pics or you are quoting just 1 or 2 guys who are either teasing you (over the top) because they know you are sensitive about your figure or are shyte-stirring you because you annoyed them over something. You have a bf and a little while back you worried how long he was going to stick around because he was above your league. That would be a dilemma SD would love to have (except with a female).
Imajerk17 Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 It's very easy to be happy to be a guy when things are working out for you. For some guys, everything just line up. For others, it just doesn't happen. And of course looks not mattering is complete nonsense. Yes personality can make up for a lack of looks, but you better have a kick ass personality. If a guy isn't blessed with looks or a great personality, everything is down to luck. A girl doesn't need to be good looking or to have a nice personality, or to even stay in shape and she will still have men after her. I also know that without a shadow of a doubt, if I were a woman with nothing of my personality changed, relative attractiveness unchanged and even being in the same physical condition, I'd be married. Dating game rigged in favor of men? Hardly. The dating game favors some men. A small percentage of men have it easier then the average woman. What you forget--despite my saying this on here several times--is that I once had my troubles with attracting women too. In fact, I very well might have been even WORSE with women than you've been. Thing is though, I didn't sit around and whine. I hustled. I pulled myself up by my bootstraps. And now I am enjoying the results of my efforts. (Yes, I vote Republican too.) By the way, I don't know why you keep lobbying for women to take responsibility for the fact that some guys have dating struggles. That's like expecting you to date someone who is too heavy for you because "fat girls need love too". 2
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 What you forget--despite my saying this on here several times--is that I once had my troubles with attracting women too. In fact, I very well might have been even WORSE with women than you've been. Thing is though, I didn't sit around and whine. I hustled. I pulled myself up by my bootstraps. And now I am enjoying the results of my efforts. (Yes, I vote Republican too.) By the way, I don't know why you keep lobbying for women to take responsibility for the fact that some guys have dating struggles. That's like expecting you to date someone who is too heavy for you because "fat girls need love too". It's great and all to accept the idea of pulling yourself up by the bootstraps (I vote libertarian so it's similar). But some people are just genetically incapable of this. It's not anyone else's fault and nobody else's responsibility to fix it, but sometimes there are people for whom nothing can be done. Triage and all that...
somedude81 Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 What you forget--despite my saying this on here several times--is that I once had my troubles with attracting women too. In fact, I very well might have been even WORSE with women than you've been. Considering how I've never had a GF, FWB or F-buddy, that's not possible. You can't do worse than zero. Thing is though, I didn't sit around and whine. I hustled. I pulled myself up by my bootstraps. And now I am enjoying the results of my efforts. (Yes, I vote Republican too.) Was there a turning point for you when you went from zero to normal? By the way, I don't know why you keep lobbying for women to take responsibility for the fact that some guys have dating struggles. That's like expecting you to date someone who is too heavy for you because "fat girls need love too". Just a jealous for women. I have it extremely hard as do some other very unlucky men and women come in and say, "hey we have it just as hard." It almost feels like they are trying to trivialize my suffering.
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