Author ThaWholigan Posted November 2, 2012 Author Posted November 2, 2012 This is all glorious, Tha, and I agree with your original post entirely. I'd suggest you should start your own Pick Up Community, but let's not perpetuate the culture eh? Then again, Dr. Nerdlove came from a PUA background (and learned what to take and what to leave), and I highly recommend his stuff. You ever thought about being a dating coach? Also, I am morbidly curious... what are the 8 types? Mind sharing which one you think I am? I couldn't be a dating coach - I don't have the heart for it . I like Nerdlove too. As for the 8 types: The 8 Types of Women in Vin DiCarlo Pandora's Box | Vin DiCarlo Pandora's Box Apparently I have to ask you 3 questions for you to reveal your type, but I didn't bother to find out what they were in the program.
Author ThaWholigan Posted November 2, 2012 Author Posted November 2, 2012 This is all glorious, Tha, and I agree with your original post entirely. I'd suggest you should start your own Pick Up Community, but let's not perpetuate the culture eh? Then again, Dr. Nerdlove came from a PUA background (and learned what to take and what to leave), and I highly recommend his stuff. You ever thought about being a dating coach? Also, I am morbidly curious... what are the 8 types? Mind sharing which one you think I am? I did a reply, but of course, links are moderated now.
curlygirl40 Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 Great post and thread topic Tha, enjoyed reading it. Best of luck to you!! Curly
verhrzn Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 I did a reply, but of course, links are moderated now. PM maybe, if it isn't too much trouble?
Author ThaWholigan Posted November 2, 2012 Author Posted November 2, 2012 PM maybe, if it isn't too much trouble? Done........ I learned one thing today. Don't be a pussy, talk to her. (I did) 1
runner Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Done........ I learned one thing today. Don't be a pussy, talk to her. (I did) but dont' be a bore. make it fun and worth her while 1
pathetic1999 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 I read the women styles and as a woman how confusing they are! I am a mix of at least four of them, how could any man stick a woman in a single category?? 1
phineas Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 but dont' be a bore. make it fun and worth her while I be myself. If she don't like that, oh well. Trying to be someone i'm not is exhausting & really only works for picking up randoms & not actual dating.
threebyfate Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 I couldn't be a dating coach - I don't have the heart for it . I like Nerdlove too. As for the 8 types: Pandora's Box link removed since it goes to moderation. Apparently I have to ask you 3 questions for you to reveal your type, but I didn't bother to find out what they were in the program.Ha! I found myself on that list! 1
Author ThaWholigan Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 Ha! I found myself on that list! So did V
Monm82 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Yeah they are both failures but I think there are level of failures. A girl who dumps a guy because he is bad in bed and a guy who is in his 20s and can't even get a girl to kiss him are not piled under the same "failure" category. Not to me; at least. Most women have the ability to get casual encounters or dates. Most men who struggle can't even get that. There are guys here who have their days made when a girl in class smiles at them. That's how desperate they are for female interaction. Not a whole bunch of 20s-30s year old female virgins forced into celibacy. Most girls who lack sexual/dating experience do so by choice. The men who struggle have no such choice. Yeah, I agree with this.
Revolver Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Mr castle is mostly right. But I wouldn't even say women have it that much easier. They just have more opportunities and their "Low points"of dating are usually higher then men's "low points". It's hilarious when you see the who women complain the most on here or in general have had multiple(and some at this very moment) boyfriends/husbands throughout their lives. The men who complain usually have never had anyone. It's too different levels of being unsuccessful 2
mesmerized Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Mr castle is mostly right. But I wouldn't even say women have it that much easier. They just have more opportunities and their "Low points"of dating are usually higher then men's "low points". It's hilarious when you see the who women complain the most on here or in general have had multiple(and some at this very moment) boyfriends/husbands throughout their lives. The men who complain usually have never had anyone. It's too different levels of being unsuccessful Men here can too have multiple women throughout their lives if they lower their standards like women do. Most women who always have a guy just simply date less attractive men. I see this with my male friends too. Some are below average looking but drooling over hot women and making excuses for not wanting below average looking women or even average ones. 1
Hawakai Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Men here can too have multiple women throughout their lives if they lower their standards like women do. Most women who always have a guy just simply date less attractive men. I see this with my male friends too. Some are below average looking but drooling over hot women and making excuses for not wanting below average looking women or even average ones. You're indulging in a little bit of projection. Most guys are interested in women in their league. I see thousands of young women on a daily basis(college) and the vast majority of the women are very attractive. Many have stable relationships and many are without a boyfriend. They don't settle for a guy who isn't as good looking as them. Of course, if the guy has an audi or his dad is the owner of a company, the very attractive women will date the guy. Still.. I don't see average and below-looking guys hitting on the 6-10 women. Matter of fact, I don't even see these guys hitting on women in their league because the women who go to college aren't interested in anything serious, or can get someone better looking than them.
mesmerized Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 You're indulging in a little bit of projection. Most guys are interested in women in their league. I see thousands of young women on a daily basis(college) and the vast majority of the women are very attractive. Many have stable relationships and many are without a boyfriend. They don't settle for a guy who isn't as good looking as them. Of course, if the guy has an audi or his dad is the owner of a company, the very attractive women will date the guy. Still.. I don't see average and below-looking guys hitting on the 6-10 women. Matter of fact, I don't even see these guys hitting on women in their league because the women who go to college aren't interested in anything serious, or can get someone better looking than them. First of all college men and women are not the only men and women out there. The vast majority of our population is 22+. And by attractive I didn't mean just looks but the overall attractiveness. A lot of women who always need a guy can't wait for someone in their own league and go for whatever option thats available even if they don't really like any of them. I see that happening with men too but not as often. I bet you if somedude and other guys in this forum who complain went for a less attractive woman they would have someone but they won't. Not that I think they should but the point is lack of success is related to one's standards.
somedude81 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Women lowering her standards means; going for that guy who isn't a male model and doesn't make six figures. Man lowering his standards means; going for that girl who looks like she lives under a bridge and probably weighs as much as three of him.
mesmerized Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Women lowering her standards means; going for that guy who isn't a male model and doesn't make six figures. Man lowering his standards means; going for that girl who looks like she lives under a bridge and probably weighs as much as three of him. Honestly I think most men here are horrible at math or just simply making sense.
somedude81 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Honestly I think most men here are horrible at math or just simply making sense. Yeah sorry, I failed calculus. What the F is your point?
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Honestly I think most men here are horrible at math or just simply making sense. Usually math is a conspiracy to make it easier for people to swindle you. I may or may not be serious...
Revolver Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Men here can too have multiple women throughout their lives if they lower their standards like women do. Most women who always have a guy just simply date less attractive men. I see this with my male friends too. Some are below average looking but drooling over hot women and making excuses for not wanting below average looking women or even average ones. People need to stop this myth that if a guy can't get dates or isn't successful with women that means he's going after "10's" or women out of his league. That's not always true, heck I don't even think that's true most of the time. Sometimes a dude just has no luck or game. Pretty much all men "drool" over hot women. But I rarely if ever see men Holding out hope for a supermodel. 2
mesmerized Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Yeah sorry, I failed calculus. What the F is your point? I can tell you failed. My point is you also fail to make sense and talk based on logic.
somedude81 Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 People need to stop this myth that if a guy can't get dates or isn't successful with women that means he's going after "10's" or women out of his league. That's not always true, heck I don't even think that's true most of the time. Sometimes a dude just has no luck or game. Pretty much all men "drool" over hot women. But I rarely if ever see men Holding out hope for a supermodel. I think that the statement "you're only going for hot girls" is a way for women to avoid acknowledging that some men really do have problems with women. They also don't want to admit how much easier it is for themselves. I can tell you failed. My point is you also fail to make sense and talk based on logic.
Hawakai Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 (edited) Honestly I think most men here are horrible at math or just simply making sense. Women in their 30's tend to be pickier than women in their 20's because they are looking to settle down. But there are so many, so many women in their 20's without a boyfriend because they ''can't' find a guy. I see more and more women in their 30's living their lives without a boyfriend(but they do have a FWB with hot guys). Edited November 4, 2012 by Hawakai
mesmerized Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 I think that the statement "you're only going for hot girls" is a way for women to avoid acknowledging that some men really do have problems with women. They also don't want to admit how much easier it is for themselves. Some men have problem with dating and so do some women. And if you hadn't failed calculus, perhaps you could have understood why saying "women have it so much easier in dating" doesn't make logical sense.
Hawakai Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Some men have problem with dating and so do some women. And if you hadn't failed calculus, perhaps you could have understood why saying "women have it so much easier in dating" doesn't make logical sense. Depends on what women perceive as doing badly with dating. Most women can get sex without having to put much effort - if any at all - into it, and they can have that sex with average to very good-looking men. Men on the other hand, even if they are good-looking, many have a hard time finding a girl to have sex with.
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