wasnotwas Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 I haven't spoken to my ex for a few weeks. She kept trying to contact me even when I told her not to but has given up now. I miss her a lot. It is weird. I dont think I want her back, but I do love her and miss her. Yesterday my sister told me that my ex had contacted her on FB asking how she was. My sis responded tht her and her family were fine and my ex replied that she was having an amazing time travelling and really enjoying herself. My sis said it seemed quite over the top how she described how happy she was. I just nodded and felt really sad that I am suffering daily on how to move on when I am heart broken and lost my faith in love. My ex asked about me but my sister merely told her I was happy. Last night I dreamt my ex came to me, looked me intensely in the eyes and said: 'I love you'. I woke up crying and felt messed up all day. When I told a friend about my dream she interreupted me, said 'oh yeah your ex re-added me on FB today. It looks like she is having an amazing time travelling.' I tried to count to ten but lost my temper. I got abusive towards my friend, swore at her a lot and shouted that I am heart broken and do not want to hear about my ex, particularly on a day when I am particularly upset about my break up. I found it really tactless and it triggered all the pain inside me to come up to the surface. And now I feel rubbish. Really hurt and sad.
jessicarose244 Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Hi, It seems to me as if your ex is still interested. Why else would she be contacting your family and friends. You should call and tell her how you feel. Tell her everything and if she does not come out and tell you that she wants nothing to do with you than I think you should ask for a second shot at things. If she does refuse than at least you will no for sure and can move on. Trust me, it will be better to wait and find someone who truly loves you than to wait around and regret. I think you should just spill your heart and go from there. Good luck and remember that you are worth loving. Everyone is!
favoritepills Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 Whether or not your ex actually misses you, DON'T reach out to her. What she's doing is super lame, trying to rub it in your friends' and relatives' faces that she's so happy without you. That's really insensitive, and that behavior shouldn't be rewarded. If she wants you back, she should take the high road and swallow some pride.
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