despicableME Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Hi all. It's been some time from my last post but just to update, my situation has gotten better, if you can believe it. My fAP did indeed transfer go through with her transfer. I don't know what lies ahead for them, but I wish them well. My ex-wife has accepted direct communication from me after many months of ignoring my calls. I can understand her shunning me all this time. I'll take what I can get. I've read elsewhere about the possibility of reconciliation even after divorce, which is what I'm hoping for. I realize, now, that I should've fought for my marriage, rather than just "roll over" and just give up. Such a fool I was. I really didn't know what to do, though. I believed i was doing the right thing at the time. Then again, my decision making wasn't all that good at the time. I will try my darnedest to win her back. And even if she decides to move on, the chance alone makes it all worth it to me. I was such a fool... such a damn fool. 7
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Pierre Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Hi all. It's been some time from my last post but just to update, my situation has gotten better, if you can believe it. My fAP did indeed transfer go through with her transfer. I don't know what lies ahead for them, but I wish them well. My ex-wife has accepted direct communication from me after many months of ignoring my calls. I can understand her shunning me all this time. I'll take what I can get. I've read elsewhere about the possibility of reconciliation even after divorce, which is what I'm hoping for. I realize, now, that I should've fought for my marriage, rather than just "roll over" and just give up. Such a fool I was. I really didn't know what to do, though. I believed i was doing the right thing at the time. Then again, my decision making wasn't all that good at the time. I will try my darnedest to win her back. And even if she decides to move on, the chance alone makes it all worth it to me. I was such a fool... such a damn fool. Affairs are highly destructive to everyone involved except the philanderer---------------------unless you are in a clear cut exit affair. I wish you luck. Try and court your ex wife again. The 2nd time around may be the best. One issue is that your ex may think you are coming back because AP is now unavailable. 3
RickFox Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Was actually wondering about you the other day. Good luck.
Afishwithabike Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I hardly post on LS anymore, but saw this thread. Keep us updated. I wish you luck. I hope you two can start a new relationship built on trust and honesty though you have your work cut out for you. It's a long road to reconciliation, but at least now you have a glimmer of hope whereas you had none before.
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