Freundin Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Hi. I am here to know you guys opinion.I fell in love with a man who is 19 years older than me.I feel awkward that I love things he loves too.Everyday,we talk through phone,we do webcam,email and chat.I am unable to meet him because we are not from the same country.If someday I can,I will make it.One day,I asked him is he taken or not.He told me he is not.Then,he told me that he likes someone else who is few years older than me.The thing is,they are not dating.Just sort of.. He wants to meet her but this girl always refuse to meet him because she said she is nervous.He wants to marry her too. What makes me feel weird is,if she feels the same way too..why they both don't want to meet each other?Why is she refuse to do so?Why is she treating him that way?What I heard from him is,this thing has been ongoing for like few years.One more thing,if he loves her that much,why is he contact me this often?I feel sad actually because I know I wouldn't treat him that way. Ever since that,I slowly contact him so that he can focus on her.Also,everytime I call him..I will ask him about that girl so that may distract him.This morning,I receive an email from him.He asked me to be safe and if I am able to chat with him,he will be around.He ends his email with *hugs*.I feel sad because someone nice like him loves someone who I think will not treat him the same way.How I wish,I am that girl. So,is it me being too much here?Or him or what?Thanks
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