Nancy B Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Maybe I'm naive but found this a little disrespectful or something. What do you think? My buddy left a fancy dress costume at my place. He came over to get it yesterday and informed my room mate that the girl he is seeing want's him to go to her place in it and have some 'fun' if you know what I mean. They are only going out a few weeks but seem really compatible. She is super shy and would be mortified if she knew he revealed this to his buddies. I don't know the full details of the conversation between my roomie and the boyfriend. Is this common? Disrepectful?
River Rain Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 It seems both women and men like to brag about sex to others. I don't think it's all that harmful, from what you wrote. If he were going into intimate details, then yeah, I'd say that was disrespectful.
xdahliax Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 I don't really like hearing about others' sexual encounters, especially when I don't know them very well. However, he didn't go into detail so I don't consider it rude. I just have different boundaries than others do and I accept that. A coworker once told me that she got her boyfriend 2 jars of nutella for his birthday. I thought it was a really cheap gift, but she took it upon herself to explain what she planned on doing with it. That was rude.
Author Nancy B Posted November 1, 2012 Author Posted November 1, 2012 Well, I think there were more intimate details revealed but my roomie could tell I wasn't really impressed and changed the conversation! Oh deary me. I may never eat Nutella again! Rude indeed!
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