Countrygirl6 Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 I have been seeing this man for a month now everything was fine and the other day he text me and says I'm not ready for a relationship but he still keeps caking me and texting me I'm so confused dont know what's going on can anyone give me some insight to this?
River Rain Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Have you asked him? If he doesn't want a relationship, but keeps contacting you, then you can't possibly know what he wants unless you ask him directly. He could want friendship or sex or both. Or he's lonely.
ascendotum Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 ^ yep. friendship or sex or likely both. You are not his dream girl, but he still likes you.
Author Countrygirl6 Posted November 1, 2012 Author Posted November 1, 2012 He says everything is moving too fast so I have been giving him space and I'm not the one calling and texting he is, he even invites me over to spend the night with him but we don't even have sex all the time we just cuddle
mortensorchid Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 He's waffling on things because he isn't sure if he wants to be with you or not. I'd move on, he's not worth it if he can't give you a definate yes or no. You will have to give it to him.
veggirl Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 How much were you hanging out in a month? He likely just wants sex / companionship but is not that into you and would drop you for a girl he really feels "it" with. If a guy tells you he is not ready for a relationship, and you want a relationship, you should RUN. This is one of the few situations where WORDS mean more than actions.
kiss_andmakeup Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 I feel like he's hanging onto hope that you'll eventually be a booty call...
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