Dazed_Confused1989 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Have made significant strides since the BU 1.5 months ago. But I'm not sure what tomorrow will bring. I suppose I have to just treat it like any other day. Looking forward to having it done and over with... My original plan, before LS, was to reach out to her...but I've since learned what a horrible idea that would have been. I'm strong and independent - I can do this!
hurt_burst Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Yes ... We can do this... I also keep telling myself that i would not initiate contact .... Just hold on to your resolve and that would be the way to go...!!
Tree_Salmon Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Have made significant strides since the BU 1.5 months ago. But I'm not sure what tomorrow will bring. I suppose I have to just treat it like any other day. Looking forward to having it done and over with... My original plan, before LS, was to reach out to her...but I've since learned what a horrible idea that would have been. I'm strong and independent - I can do this! I can tell you from experience that contact will make no difference. As soon as a breakup occurs, both people need to start working on themselves. My 6 year anniversary just passed a few weeks ago. There won't be a 7th and I've come to accept this. Time will help, but it's going to be hard.
InAFog Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 What would have been 6 years for me will be coming up soon. It will be sad. Especially knowing that he'll be spending it with his new girl. Keep on truckin'. We'll all get thru it eventually. 1
M30USA Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Have made significant strides since the BU 1.5 months ago. But I'm not sure what tomorrow will bring. I suppose I have to just treat it like any other day. Looking forward to having it done and over with... My original plan, before LS, was to reach out to her...but I've since learned what a horrible idea that would have been. I'm strong and independent - I can do this! If you have wronged her, abused her, or cheated on her, then you SHOULD reach out to her. The whole NC idea is for otherwise normal relationships where the people just couldn't see eye to eye. Which one applies to you?
Author Dazed_Confused1989 Posted November 1, 2012 Author Posted November 1, 2012 The latter. We had nothing short of a mutually loving and supportive relationship.
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