SJC2008 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Had a date last night, met online. We texted for almost 3 weeks before meeting because she's been very busy with school. Anyway, I had a pretty good time. She's cute, very friendly, comfortable, confident woman, but at the same time followed my lead on the date. She didn't try to take over or call shots so I liked that about her, good balance if you will, came across as a genuine woman. She tried a couple of other sites as we talked about OLD a bit. She said the last two guys she went out didn't call her the next day or at all. I said a lot of times guys don't call the next day becasue they don't want to come on too strong and that's when she said they never called at all. I'm sure she's interesed, she said see you soon as we said goodbye and even texted me later saying she had a good time. I texted her in the morning saying I had a good time too. I will call her but don't want to come on too strong and a good rule of thumb is to not call the very next day but should I?? I don't think she'll deal break me if I wait a day?? I HATE the dating game, so tired of it!!! Should I call today??
Imajerk17 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 (edited) As much as we like to think there is a "one size fits all" approach to dating, there really isn't. It depends on the person. Hell there are women on here who don't need the mystery, and if a guy doesn't call soon after the date, she feels that things are going too slow or losing momentum. This girl hinted that she likes to get a call the next day. So there is your answer. (Call her tonight) Edited October 31, 2012 by Imajerk17
Author SJC2008 Posted October 31, 2012 Author Posted October 31, 2012 As much as we like to think there is a "one size fits all" approach to dating, there really isn't. It depends on the person. Hell there are women on here who don't need the mystery, and if a guy doesn't call soon after the date, she feels that things are going too slow or losing momentum. This girl hinted that she likes to get a call the next day. So there is your answer. (Call her tonight) Yeah I don't buy into the mystery crap either, from either end. If you're interested in someone you date them and see where it goes. TBS comming on too strong is the #1 killer of a courtship so I'm weary about calling the next day, regardless of her "hints". I don't think if I wait a day I'd come acrossa as uninterested or a game player. Sooo jaded from dating:{ 1
mortensorchid Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 I would call quite honestly. If you want to see her again, call the day after or the next day at the latest. Otherwise if I have not heard from the guy after 2 days I know he will end up being a friend. Life has taught me this, and I don't think it's coming on strong. It's a man who wants what he wants.
Author SJC2008 Posted November 1, 2012 Author Posted November 1, 2012 I think I'm going to wait until tomorrow, it just doesn't feel right. Plus if I call her tonight I'll feel engaged to call the next day after the next date too. TBS I don't mind callig the next day once things start to progress though. She'll probably remember what I said anyway about why men don't usually call the next day.
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