headsashed Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Well its been a while since i posted on here about my ex,suppose its cos ive been doing pretty well with myself,this wont be a long thread but ill start from the beginning. For the past few months ive felt great,hardly thought about the ex,not really hurt or anything like that. Ive been on 3 dates since we split 6 months ago and now im actually carrying on seeing the 3rd,shes amazing. Now this weekend was my birthday so me and my friends decided to hit the town,what an amazing night we had,i didnt get home till 5:50 am lol,i must have chatted 20 women,could tell my personality was back haha,i didnt do anything either as im basically seeing someone now. All the pics from that night were put on facebook (my ex is blocked) ,loads of comments etc,basically i felt great,looked great and all that. Anyway,i got an email off my ex saying happy birthday,i replied and said thanks,i know its best not to reply but tbh i dont feel anything for her so i didnt see any harm in replying,she responded saying its best that we dont talk anymore and go back to not talking,i just said ok no problem,take care. Then she fired back with saying that i think im gods gift,im a joke cos ive got women falling over at my feet,shes got something to tell me but will tell me when she feels the need to.. It goes on lol,i never replied,i suppose i couldnt with laughter,id love to know though why she thinks that i think im gods gift an all that crap haha. Now either shes had her mates look at my fb and that and she can see im doing pretty well without her or shes just a complete wierdo. I wont reply to her either,i just thought id share this with you. 1
KatZee Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Oh man, she's definitely pissed that your life is better without her in it. She's definitely jealous because she's probably still single, still looking for that "better" guy she thought was out there. Now she sees you're not pining for her, you're not upset, you're not trying to get her back... and she's sitting at home having her friends stalk your FB account! LMAO. I wouldn't doubt if what she has to tell you involves something she did to you while in the relationship. I feel like she'd stoop that low as to try to knock you when you're high right now. I feel a very bitter and vengeful ex about to be coming around... I'd block that number ASAP.
TopCat22 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Incoming headcase! She sounds angry, upset and fairly immature. Avoid.
Chi townD Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 What's up Dude!!! KatZee is absolutely right. She wants to tell you something to knock you off your high. Go back to her first line. "I think it's best that we don't communicate any further." Of course, she was trying to bait you....but you didn't bite. HOWEVER!!!! You're Ex had some sound advice! 1
Author headsashed Posted October 31, 2012 Author Posted October 31, 2012 he chi pal,hows tricks,im so glad im typing and not talking lol,ive just got home from the dentist and half my mouth is all numb with the anthestic,im slurring my words haha. Onto the matter at hand,kat i think ur right when u say that its something she did while in a relationship with me,but do i care? ofcourse not lol. She has a bf too,she had to slip that into her email,why on earth she says happy bday then goes on a rampage at me,maybe she has finally realised im doing so good without her and she doesnt like it,who knows,shes a complete wierdo. I did find it hilarious when she said i think im gods gift to women and im a joke cos ive got women falling at my feet,damn i wish i had lol. I believe she has friends stalking my facebook and reporting back to her,its only way she can know whats goin off in my life,all them pics of me partying and with other girls,lol,not that i did anything with them but hey,im allowed to enjoy myelf. The question is,why is she so bitter towards me? wasnt she over me and couldnt care less? thats whta she said about 4 month ago the last time we spoke,oh well,shes wierd and ive got a party to attend tonight
geegirl Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 She's mad you're not reacting. She's nice when she wants something and when she doesn't get the right response from you, attack. Why aren't you grovelling and boosting her ego? Not pining anymore, how come? She can't stand it that you're moving on and she's no longer the focus of your attention. It's a combination of both. She can't stand it and she's a head case. Good to hear it's not affecting you anymore!
Author headsashed Posted October 31, 2012 Author Posted October 31, 2012 She's mad you're not reacting. She's nice when she wants something and when she doesn't get the right response from you, attack. Why aren't you grovelling and boosting her ego? Not pining anymore, how come? She can't stand it that you're moving on and she's no longer the focus of your attention. It's a combination of both. She can't stand it and she's a head case. Good to hear it's not affecting you anymore! Thanx geegirl,i honestly never expected to hear from her again,i see her most days driving past but she always looks away,wonder why,i think shes bitter because i give her nothing anymore,i dont bite,i do nothing. Im not 100% over her but im damn close,my life is going great,my self esteem is back,my personality and sense of humour is back,im basically my old self. This is going to sound big headed but i must have chatted 20 women up on saturday night,they was loving my personality/charm etc but because im faithful i left it at that,even my mate kept asking me to chat women up for him haha. If you play ur cards right geegirl i might chat you up lol,joking
Frank13 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Great post headsashed! Thanks for posting it.
geegirl Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Thanx geegirl,i honestly never expected to hear from her again,i see her most days driving past but she always looks away,wonder why,i think shes bitter because i give her nothing anymore,i dont bite,i do nothing. Im not 100% over her but im damn close,my life is going great,my self esteem is back,my personality and sense of humour is back,im basically my old self. This is going to sound big headed but i must have chatted 20 women up on saturday night,they was loving my personality/charm etc but because im faithful i left it at that,even my mate kept asking me to chat women up for him haha. If you play ur cards right geegirl i might chat you up lol,joking Oh, life's to short to chat up a rickety old woman like me! I'm glad to hear you're feeling confident in putting yourself out there again. I remember once when you didn't think you would ever be able to do it. Progress!
Mack05 Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 (edited) Headsashed sorry for putting a downer here, but what's the difference between this post and your posts from 12 months ago? For me nothing has changed. You make progress, you move on with your life feeling positive. Ex reaches out, you respond. Ex then says she wants nothing to do with you and says something nasty. You come to Loveshack calling her weird, everyone agrees..Same bulls€)/t, different day. Dude a few things. You are as weird as she is. That's a fact. If you weren't you would have learnt your lessons and never engaged her 12 months ago let alone now, yet here you are preaching the same story. 16 months since you joined LS yet even now you still post about her? and she is the weird one? Think about it. I am sure she is no angel, but this is not about her. It's not been about her for long time now. No matter how bad she behaves you continue to engage her. This is about you. Feeling good in yourself (in my opinion) does not involve posting pictures of yourself on a broken hearts forum looking for validation of how far you have come, or seeking approval of yourself from Internet strangers. Feeling good in yourself does not involve slagging of an ex and having people you have never met (or never met her) on the web agree with you (believe me I know, I've done it twice now). Posting about her still, what is it achieving really? You want to achieve something truly positive then focus on this new girl 110%. You want to achieve something positive then never speak to your ex again and never post about her on this site again. Anything else you are just kidding yourself. Engaging in her pathetic games, looking for answers that will never make sense.Time to break the cycle for good. Time to meet a girl that makes you so happy that posting on this site about your ex, is thee last thing on your mind.... I wouldn't be surprised though if in 6 months time you are still posting about her...and yet she is the weird one.... Edited November 1, 2012 by Mack05
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