enuno Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 There's a girl who I was quite good friends with, and then out of the blue, after I make fun of her (as I have done countless times before, she just laughs it off), she started ignoring me, and people were saying that she hated me. Whenever I'm talking with my friend, she butts in and talks to him, leaving me completely ignored. Some people say she wants attention, but I'm tempted to say she just hates me. Thoughts? BTW I'm 16, so this is in high school.
xdahliax Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 At some point, you probably crossed the line between friendly/flirty teasing and being outright mean. Instead of asking us why she's behaving that way, ask her if you've done something to bother her and apologize if you have.
kt1012 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Sweetie.. In 2 years I promise you won't care anymore If it really bothers you... ask her, in private, what you did to make her so mad. If she can't get over it... Don't sweat it lol
WanderingHeart Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Sweetie.. In 2 years I promise you won't care anymore If it really bothers you... ask her, in private, what you did to make her so mad. If she can't get over it... Don't sweat it lol This is the God's honest truth. If you start telling everyone that you don't understand why she hates you and make a big deal of it, then you're attention seeking just as much as her. If you calmly and privately give her a chance to talk about it - and bear in mind she may not want to talk to you, so don't push it - then you'll be the bigger person. At your age, everyone is a mess of hormones, so she's just as confused about the world as you. Hate comes (and goes) easy to teenagers. I wouldn't take it too personally. And seriously, the girls you like in 2 or 3 years time will be nothing like the girls you're after now. This might seem like a big deal, but it really isn't. Good luck
Hawaii50 Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Don't even ask, it's pointless.. she'll say "nothing" or "I'm fine." If you like her here's how you play it.. Just go ahead, apologize, but in that apology make yourself seem like 1. a dick 2. nervous because you like her (reason for #1) ,and 3. you won't don't it anymore.. But, you have to be sincere IF you like her. keep the change
xdahliax Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Don't even ask, it's pointless.. she'll say "nothing" or "I'm fine." If you like her here's how you play it.. Just go ahead, apologize, but in that apology make yourself seem like 1. a dick 2. nervous because you like her (reason for #1) ,and 3. you won't don't it anymore.. But, you have to be sincere IF you like her. keep the change I hope your future girlfriends find out about your LS account
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