michaelbui Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 This coming thursday will be a big car event. Im really into cars and stuff and also on a team. So of course ill be attending. I got my ex into cars and everything and she just attended to go there as well. She is friends with one of my friends and probably will be hanging around that friend. So its most likely im going to see her... I don't know how to react to this. Should I just be like, "you look nice" give her a hug and then tell her see you later? or like ignore her? I don't know what to do because we agreed to the NC rule... please help
theLWord Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 I definitely don't think you should stroke her ego or give her a hug.. Try your best to ignore her unless she speaks to you. 1
InAFog Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 I would avoid meeting up with her as much as possible. If absolutely necessary, nonchalance & indifference kindness. I gave my ex a hug meeting up. Awful. It felt like home to have him in my arms and messed me up for about 2 weeks. Casual acquaintences. You are not in each other's lives any more. Good luck, and don't let her draw you in to any drama.
spaniard Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Don't go. I would never ever risk my achievements for a car show or whatever. I avoid all the places where there is the slightest chance she would show up. I'm doin fine, 4 months after break up. Do I want to go back to Day 1? No, hell no. Would I go back to Day 1 if I met her? Definitely. So don't go. At least I wouldn't. 1
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