Bad_Feeling Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 My gf broke up with me in May of 2012. I went over 100 days of no contact. In August after more than 100 days of no contact I sent a short text to her, just hello how are things. No response at all. Now because of the great east coast storm she texts me to see if I am ok. What the hell is this about, she wasn't concerned prior to the storm? Is there a hidden meaning? Thank
daisies12 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Everything differs from situation, so it's hard to say what your ex is really thinking/feeling without knowing her/the situation. But I know that just because you stop wanting to be with someone, doesn't mean you will stop caring about their well-being. If she's concerned about the storm and where you are located, I'm sure she'd want to know that you're alive and well. Other than that, I wouldn't read into it too much to avoid disappointment. 1
Under The Radar Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 She still cares, but that doesn't mean she wants to be in a relationship with you. The text was a glorified breadcrumb. Stay NC dude. 2
theLWord Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 She didn't even respond the first time you contacted her, so I think that she was just genuinely wondering if you were okay from the storm. No hidden meaning, nothing more. I think you should tell her you are fine, then continue NC. You might not be ready to break it yet since you are reading into everything.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Yeah, it means nothing as far as your relationship. Sandy was a bad storm and it's perfectly reasonable to wonder if someone you know is OK. I wouldn't read anything more into it.
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