groovygirl06jm Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 My boyfriend and I have been together for two months and something, but for the past three weeks he's been away in vaccation. He didn't really say good-bye when he left and that kinda made me sad. Anyways, he has never called me, but a few times he has called his best friend julio and asked him to tell me little messages. About a week ago julio told me Chris(my boyfriend) had asked him to tell me that he was very confused about me and didn't know what was going to be of us when he got back, it kinda freaked me out a little because I didn't understand how he could be getting confused if we hadn't even seen each other, and how could I give him a reason to be confused about me if we hadn't been around each other. That just did't make too much sense. So I told Julio to tell him we would talk when he got back. But just yesterday, Chris called me but I wasn't home so he called Julio and told him to tell me that he wanted to know how I was and if I was still his girlfriend. I thought that was cute but then again he is being so weird. what is " I want to know if you're still my girlfriend" suppose to mean?? How is he getting all these ideas if we havent been together for a few weeks because he is in vaccation. and why is he letting Julio between us?? I feel so lost. I really like him and by me we stay together for as long as we possibly can but I just don't understand why he is acting so immature. It reminds me of kindengarden when I told my friend to tell the guy I liked that I liked him and kept my friend going back and forth with little messages. He has never had a girlfriend before and maybe that has to do with it. And maybe I just don't know. HELP!!!!!!
Butter15 Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 i think he's just lonely and misses you and his emotions are mixed up when i went on vacation i did the same thing i was so confused i just didn't know if he liked me anymore and i just thought things i shouldn't have but if you had a good relationship before he left then don't worry and maybe he said that because he's afraid that maybe you got mad at him because he said he didn't know about you anymore and he might just feel insecure about leaving you alone for that long he might be scared that you might cheat on him and wouldn't want to find that out when you come back or he cheated on you and it didn't last so he turned back to you...i'm just looking at all the possiblities sorry if i'm scaring you but i think it'll turn out fine between you....i wish i could say that about my situation if you can your advice would help if you want to post on my thread...but hey everything will be okay between you it sound like it will
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