cherrybombx Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 I dont know how to make a long story short. Basically, my ex and I broke up in June of this year. Well, he broke up with me. Abruptly, and without much reason. I was devastated. For a month or so after we didn't talk. At all. Randomly, he began messaging me on facebook every other day at which point I learned he had begun dating an ex girlfriend again. We started texting pretty regularly and made plans to see each other as friends and just hang out. 2 months later, we're texting pretty heavily all the time and seeing each other every other day. We've done things we probably shouldn't have done and he says things that only a boyfriend should say to their girlfriend such as he misses my pretty face and wants to lay next to me and we should make plans for me to spend the night. He always tells me I'm beautiful. He said he couldn't forget about me and even said he felt a little jealous over another guy. But. He's still with her. He never talks about her, except to mention they dont spend much time together. But I know they're still together. I dont want to believe he's using me. I dont think he's that type of person, but I'm worried I'm giving him too much credit. It's all starting to wear on me and make me wonder what I'm doing wrong, and why still making such an effort to be in my life if he's "so happy." I just need a different point of view, I suppose.
TopCat22 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 He wants his cake (his new GF) and wants to eat it too (you). I could be wrong but from a guy's perspective I think he just wants to sleep with you again. I think you are giving him too much credit. If he wants to be with you then he should end it with her. If he wants to be with her then he needs to stop seeing you. Stop enabling him. If you don't want to be messed around make a stand. 2
TaraMaiden Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Invent a BF and tell him you no longer want to see him. Delete from FB, block, ignore and deny.In all ways possible. Drop off his radar and shove him with a good kick, off yours. Permanently. Period. He's a cheater, a player and a liar. Really, it's all there, in your post. You don't think 'he's that type of person'....? Please tell me you're kidding...
Minadee Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Been there, done that. Honey if he leaves this girl for you, then what? You're happy for a few weeks before he does exactly what he did to you to another girl. These blokes never change!
kt1012 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 BAIL!!! and FAST!!! Even if he leaves her for you.... You will always worry that he will do to you what he did with you!!! Either way you will be hurt!! so BAIL BAIL BAIL!!!
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