Sun Devil Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 I tried online dating with match.com and found that a lot of women wanted taller men. I am wondering if there is a way to attract taller women online or if there are sights designed for short men. Would a well written profile cause a woman to forget her height requirement?
pteromom Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 If someone is open to dating a shorter man, she will not have strict height requirements. Rather than trying to get women to change their mind about you, focus on the women who DON'T necessarily want taller men.
yongyong Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Look, are you going to listen or what? you can only win a woman with a fame and status game in your situation. Look for international marriage.
darkmoon Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 (edited) i like short men - i don't like a faceful of chest when I cuddle, and right in the bedroom, everything fits like a jigsaw, touching right where it should (it rhymes with cl**) good bodybanging you can both kiss easily too, more and more i think you should make it a feature in your ad, my two cents, try i say and see, i don't think the women saying no have done too much dating Edited October 30, 2012 by darkmoon
phineas Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Define "short" OP. I'm 5'8" and have gotten some dates from OLD. I do better in real life however when I do manage to get out & socialize.
Author Sun Devil Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 I define short as below 5 feet 5 inches. I am only 5 feet tall so that makes me shorter than most women. I am just wondering if there is a way to convince women online to ignore their height requirements. Would having a good profile help with this?
phineas Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Are you Asian or not born of white non-Hispanic parents? It does matter.
yongyong Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 If you have a picture with a celebrity, picture of your mansion, picture of sitting in your bentley etc..... Best bet as an average guy is talking to women in third world country who makes $500 a month. If you think I am being negative, ignore my comment, Stop Asking here, go out prove yourself. Anyone with advice? I define short as below 5 feet 5 inches. I am only 5 feet tall so that makes me shorter than most women. I am just wondering if there is a way to convince women online to ignore their height requirements. Would having a good profile help with this?
rocketman122 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 I define short as below 5 feet 5 inches. I am only 5 feet tall so that makes me shorter than most women. I am just wondering if there is a way to convince women online to ignore their height requirements. Would having a good profile help with this? 5foot is really at the extreme of short. you will have a hard time finding woman. all you can do is keep trying. work on other things like personality, and appearance to maximize your potential.
kaylan Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 How old are you OP? If you are young there is still time to grow. Seeing as the average male height is around 5'9/5'10, most people consider 6 feet and up tall-ish, and 5'7 and down short-ish. Id say 5'7 is usually when most people start to notice a guy as short or a girl as tall, in my opinion. Tbh, OLD wont do you well. Folks tend to be more picky due to the "online marketplace" nature of online dating. Plus its hard for other personal qualities to shine through when all people can do is read text and look at pictures. So with all this being said, I wouldnt but too much stock in OLD. Sure you can use it, but most women will gloss over you online. Meet women in the real world. Thats your best option.
rocketman122 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Folks tend to be more picky due to the "online marketplace" nature of online dating. woman have so much selection OLD that they can freely choose. its not easy. OLD is a meat market.
Author Sun Devil Posted October 31, 2012 Author Posted October 31, 2012 I am half asian and half white, but I do not look asian at all. I am 23 years old so I am done growing. I keep worrying that my height would prevent me from getting a girl.
rocketman122 Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 OLD is exactly the opposite of dating used to be. old fashioned style of meeting was -you see someone visually you like (at a cafe/library etc) and you approach them -you go on dates and meet them OLD style -you read and meet them through their profile, then email and then on the phone -then you meet them and see them face to face.
Author Sun Devil Posted October 31, 2012 Author Posted October 31, 2012 Would meeting women in real life be a better alternative than online dating? At least I can use my personality to get a woman to overlook my height.
silicone Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Would meeting women in real life be a better alternative than online dating? At least I can use my personality to get a woman to overlook my height. Yes, it would b better.
dasein Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 Yep, in your case OP, forego OLD and go with in person meeting. Good luck.
kaylan Posted October 31, 2012 Posted October 31, 2012 woman have so much selection OLD that they can freely choose. its not easy. OLD is a meat market. Id say guys can freely choose too. From seeing how myself and other men behave online, a lot of average, below average, and non-thin girls get overlooked. Or they simply have guys hitting them up for sex. Many men and women treat it like a meat market it seems.
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