AlisaMarie Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 I stopped counting after a few months- but I just realized that 4 days ago marked 1 year of no contact with my abusive narcissist ex of 3 years. The only reason I thought of this is because I ran into his mother at the store and she said "oh my it's been a year!" It was nice to talk to her for a few because I loved her dearly, but she did try to talk about him while I kindly brought the conversation back to how she is. Walking away, it dawned on me that they are all just other people in this world that really have no impact on who I am and my life. I have succeeded. INDIFFERENCE - and it's wonderful. 7
Sunslides Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 WOOT WOOT! I am getting close to two months!!! Good for you honey! 1
Author AlisaMarie Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 Awesome! Soon enough you won't care to even count... I still think about him sometimes- but the pain is GONE! Suck though because I have some other ass making me feel like crap!
warm_at_heart Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 You're an inspiration to all those out there who want to walk away from relationships but find it hard. It can be done! Well done. By the sounds of it though you're most recent choice hasn't improved things much? 1
oracle Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 What a wonderful feeling to realize; It doesn't matter to me anymore
Author AlisaMarie Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 You're an inspiration to all those out there who want to walk away from relationships but find it hard. It can be done! Well done. By the sounds of it though you're most recent choice hasn't improved things much? I have been in a few bad relationships, but only a few that really ripped my heart out. The past one that the thread was about was one of them. Unfortunately, I seem to like a challenge and go for Mr. Emotionally Unattainable time and time again... so the current relationship isn't my dream one, but are they ever? I feel everone's hurt here, I do... That stomach dropping stay in bed for a week numbness that nothing can shake... ahhh... I lived it. Indifference to the person that caused it is sheer bliss. In a perfect world this blog would not exist and we'd all be in love and happy.
Author AlisaMarie Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 What a wonderful feeling to realize; It doesn't matter to me anymore Exactly! You accept that they are just other normal people that live on this planet as you do.
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