michaelbui Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Back in August was when I broke up with my girlfriend because I found her flirting with another guy behind my back. We had no contact for a while and then late september tried to fix things and it got ugly. Got in a fight and we ended things on bad terms. So about a week and a half ago, me and my ex officially broke up on good terms after talking how we ended things badly. We agreed to NC. She calls me 3 days later asking to sleep on the phone with her because she was scared of the noises outside her window. I thought it was an excuse because she misses me and sleeps better with me on the phone. I told her, this would be breaking the NC rule we agreed upon. She apologized for calling and said goodnight and we hanged up. 5 days later, she hasn't called me but what if she calls me? I know I should not answer and ignore it. But just incase I am weak and answer to her call. What should I tell her? And a little bit of more information, a couple things she told me when we were trying to work things out, I asked if she misses me. She tells me only sometimes ever since she fell out of love with me. And that really bothers me.. I do want to tell her though, "why should I miss you or call you or get in any form of contact with you with somebody who is just going to miss me sometimes? Is this one of the times you miss me and then tomorrow you're not going to miss me? I want to be somebody who is always going to miss me." I know it sounds harsh thats why i don't want to tell her that because I still care for her and I dont want to make our situation any worse. What should I do??? Ignore her? or Answer and tell her what? ;( This is the hardest thing I've ever encountered in my whole life...
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Let's not bs here, no matter what we say you'll answer, you're way to wrapped up. That's not a bad thing, or I should say, it's expected of you in this stage. Read the link in my signature, then decide what to say. You are a valuable human, you shouldn't be treated like this, you won't allow people that treat you like this into your life. 2
oracle Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Tell her to get a dog and to have a nice life.
flitzanu Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 going "nc" is not something both of you agree on. you simply stop communicating. if YOU choose not to talk to her, then don't. as pointed out, you're the one that keeps replying to her.
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