LolaLopez Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 Is it normal for men to have very low sex drives or is this a big indication of cheating? there are no other indicators and he is always home at night, never goes out to party almost ever, hardly ever works late, etc. just does not make initiative like, ever. help.
dyermaker Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 No, that doesn't always mean he's cheating. He could be exhausted, stressed, on medication, et cetera.
Author LolaLopez Posted August 2, 2004 Author Posted August 2, 2004 the only thing is that he used to be shifty when we were dating so our trust is not the greatest. but you need time to have an affair right? unless 20 min is enough idon't think there is unexplained time. and i think i'm looking pretty good too. i'm just trying to think. aagh. how often do married people do it anyway? been married 6 yrs together 8. this started after having a kid.
KnottedTummy Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 I think you are here for a reason... I think you may already know the answer to your question, not quite sure though. Lola, one thing is for sure though... women have really strong intuition. Listen to it... it will never do you wrong. I promise...
The_Analyzer Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 Talk to him about maybe going to the doctor and getting checked out. It could very well be that he is tired, stressed, or maybe a medical problem. So before jumping to any conclusions as to wheather he is cheating or not, ask him to see a doctor. If the doc, says everything is ok, no medical problems etc, then you may want to wonder. However, you need a little more eviedence too, not just a low sex drive. There should be some more red flags, pay close attention. Good luck.
sami Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 There may be other good reasons. Look inside both of you and find out.
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