Necromancer Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 As many people claim then clubs are really shallow, but these are the same girls u see at the mall. Really if a girl rejects you at a club I doubt she would be smiling in your face when you approach her at day time. Really why do clubs have so bad rep?.
Hawaii50 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Loud, hot, can't tell if it's B.O or pussy I smell, everyone is too drunk, sometimes too crowded, etc... I like 'em but wouldn't would go there expecting to find a relationship, or someone to bring home to ma and pa.
NYC-BigKat Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 As many people claim then clubs are really shallow, but these are the same girls u see at the mall. Really if a girl rejects you at a club I doubt she would be smiling in your face when you approach her at day time. Really why do clubs have so bad rep?. Its too much drinking & really loud music. Um...alot of girls just there to just tease guys & not date them. Um..lots of girl groups & stuff. Thats all I think.
jcrew11 Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 As many people claim then clubs are really shallow, but these are the same girls u see at the mall. Really if a girl rejects you at a club I doubt she would be smiling in your face when you approach her at day time. Really why do clubs have so bad rep?. Have you ever been to a club? If the girl is drunk, then there is almost no chance she will remember you tomorrow, and will ignore your phone calls.
El Brujo Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 I can only speak from experience about the clubs in L.A., but they tend to fall into one of two categories: 1. establishments frequented by college students, where you have to be able to spout crap about GPAs, course credits, all that university slang... because if they think you're not a fellow student, you're considered a non-person and they won't give you the time of day. 2. sleepy joints which are haunted by old geezers who hang around from morning until night, drinking down oceans of booze but never enough to get falling-down drunk, and these guys will probably not be interested in you unless your name is Brandy or Sherry. There are some people in L.A. who don't go to bars, but you have to know them personally because they typically have parties at each others' houses. You know what they say... a friend of a friend of a friend. 1
Mrlonelyone Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 3.) Clubs that hot people of all kinds know about and go to. The one thing to understand is this. If you want to pick someone up at a bar or club you have to close the deal the same night. Clubs are for getting laid, not making dates.
kaylan Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 (edited) As many people claim then clubs are really shallow, but these are the same girls u see at the mall. Really if a girl rejects you at a club I doubt she would be smiling in your face when you approach her at day time. Really why do clubs have so bad rep?. I think clubs get a bad wrap. Yes they can be shallow, but at the same time, there will be different kinds of people you meet there. Im a good guy myself, who doesnt hook up often, and I know Id be a great bf. That being said, by that same token, why shouldnt I expect to meet women who are the same. In all my years Ive known all kinds of women who liked to do the bar and club thing. Some were totally skanks, others were average chicks who hooked up every now and then but generally wanted relationships, and others were super good girls who never hooked up much. I even knew a couple virgins who would go to the bar and club and chill with me. Theyd still go dance and maybe make out with a guy, but they werent leaving with him. Looks can be deceiving, and the "shallow" people we deem to be bitches or douchebags can be really cool people if you take the time to talk to them. Ive heard from a couple girls that before they got to know me they assumed I was a typical bro who thought hed be too good to talk to them. Im far from that kinda guy. So it really all depends OP. Clubs and bars arent that bad...you just have to adjust your expectations properly. PS - Its better to get someones number and stuff before they have been drinking a bit. Because by then they wont remember you. Ive hard a girl or two come up to me on campus and tell me we met in the bar, and then feel embarrassed when I couldnt remember. Edited October 30, 2012 by kaylan 1
hinatticus Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Just look for the non drunk, non skanky type. I met my ex there, had a baby with her and she was my fiancé for a bit. Then sh^t hit the fan, but that's another story. We were together 4.5 years.
dasein Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Any night spot where the type of women you are looking for go is ok, provided you prepare. Stake out 3-4 clubs and only go to those. Get to know the staff, stay sober, don't go early, go after 11 and leave within 2 hours. Don't go when it's packed and loud. The best clubs for meeting have a loud grindy dance bar and a quieter lounge attached. Make the lounge your place. Work it like a plan over time, get known in your territory, and you can meet women in clubs. Being a little overdressed and knowing all the staff through being a good, friendly tipping customer is a gigantic advantage. Women will think you are Mr. Big whether you really are or not. Social value works. Being the average pack of guys that come rolling in drunk in hats and sneakers kills you in your tracks. Men are watching the women and the women are watching the door for the -right- type of guy.
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