bigg12x Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 LONG STORY ..SHORT. its been a week i met this igrl online who is cool... i mean shes 100% my type and she seems to get along with me flawless but my mistake is that i know i screwed up with was im on her ass with sweetness always telling her sweet things when we talk and always talking to her for long hours until SHE says im going to bed and then she goes! i moved way to quick anyways she was saying ur sooo sweet i wish u were a little mean so i relized it and stil contuined til la point where hse said shes confused and im too innocent lalala she was picking a fight! but anyways what happened happened already... the qustion will the ignoring trick work now u know if hse writes me dont show her any attetion and act hi and bye with her and i end the conversation from now on and def not making it go late night hours maybe 30 minutes max.... advice?
River Rain Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Ignoring will work if you want to attract an insecure childish female who is desperate for your attention.
SJC2008 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Have you been on an actual date? Save the sweet talk for when things start progressing, get to know her first. Her saying you're too nice/I wish you were a little mean would be a red flag to me. TBS if you were OTT witht the sweet talk too soon you had it comming. I had a woman tell me that and I didn't do anything to submit to her at all. That told me she wanted some hard ass which is fine with me.
veggirl Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 You're coming off as desperate. You barely know her, what sweet things are there to say over and over again? Have you ever even met her?
Author bigg12x Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 (edited) happened to quick i think..... met her online..... im just always saying nice things ot her and complamenting her .... i guess i overdid it... no a meetup could happen eventuallyalways telling her stuff and we got to know each other... shes just exactly like me which was werid ..... Edited October 29, 2012 by bigg12x
ascendotum Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 I don't think you should do a 180 and now ignore her. It would off as too contrived and playing games (though that's what many younger women love). I think you are better off backing right off on the suck up compliments and sweet talk, and no more hanging on the line for hours till she closes out the conversation. Keep it reasonably short, you have other stuff to take care of. The comments she made about you are not ideal, but its only been a week, so you can change tack and recover.
Author bigg12x Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 ok by backing off keeping it short was my next thought.... but how will this more jerish and how will it help me?
NYC-BigKat Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 ok by backing off keeping it short was my next thought.... but how will this more jerish and how will it help me? You'r very needy like me! I'm trying to date a older woman right now but am unsure if she likes me 'cause I do talk alot sometimes like u .
Author bigg12x Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 well...... whats best way to play the cards now since im a seen so soft now..... and its hard to play mean jerkish side online i never seen it? only thing is not showing her alot of attetion
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