Together for 21years and she had sex with someone else.. how do i move forward?

[KatZee]

i've not got another computer... i'll try using firefox... is there anyone over there with access to make it right?

 

This happened to me too when I first tried signing up there. I contacted the moderators and they cleared it up. Try a different browser first, keep me posted if it's still not working today.

[failedatbeingme]

Thankyou everyone.. you really dont know how just how much you're helping to ease my loneliness in all this mess..

 

I've admitedly been having swings of mood and all this has made me start trying to change who i am... i'm wearing my 'going out' clothes more... won't wear those silly pyjamas anymore... and i've not eaten for 3 days.. however vodka does help i find.

I want sex more from her.. but don't feel any better afterwards.. no i wouldn't have gone near, but as she'd already done it with me after she'd seen 'him' i hardly seemed the point holding off..

 

My son has been really good considering... very supportive to me and rather distant from his mum.. he's always been a 'mummys boy' and i think this has made him feel differently.

 

She's gone rather quiet.. isn't saying much and seems in her own little world. Her employer has gone from good to bad.... told her that as the place she works is so small, she will HAVE to work with him at some point, so i've told her to resign... which i guess is one reason she's gone quiet.

 

I've just had a shower... nice and squeaky clean and smelling nice.. still feeling like pond water, but wondering now.. should i cut my losses and ditch everything, move back home at the age of 41 and go on holiday.. .sell the house and start again...

 

it's all so confusing and no option is easy..

[KatZee]

Did you happen to check your spam mail for the validation email? Since it's saying the username is in use, it currently has you in the system, just not yet validated... check your spam and let me know.