The_Face Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 How long had you been seperated before you got back together? Did it work out the second time around? Or did it end horribly?
River Rain Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 We were ldr most of the summer, broke it off officially over a month ago, got back together just 2 days ago, so far so good. There have been mature changes in both of us and we spoke at length about why things broke down and what changes we intend to make, what compromises we are willing to make and what promises we intend to keep. Just words? I hope not. Time will tell, but it seems there is a deeper understanding now.
hearttopieces Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Together for 14 months, broke up with him and asked for NC. Got back together after about 5 months apart. Broke up again after a year, this time it is final. Don't really believe in second chances anymore, a break up is for a reason. But of course most people decide to ignore advice and will learn the hard way, like I did.
Author The_Face Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 I guess sometimes I hope that the breakup with my ex was just a mistake and maybe after time, the good things we did for/with eachother will shine through and their importance will overcome the little arguments that ended up plaguing our relationship in the end. Depending on how/ when a reconciliation were to come about, I might be open to trying again. Worse case scenario, we break up again. I don't know. I miss my ex, is what it really comes down to for me, right now.
Jamesblame Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 Considered it. Saw her...and clearly we both weren't interested in pursuing anything outside of the hope that down the line we could be friendly.
River Rain Posted November 3, 2012 Posted November 3, 2012 We were ldr most of the summer, broke it off officially over a month ago, got back together just 2 days ago, so far so good. There have been mature changes in both of us and we spoke at length about why things broke down and what changes we intend to make, what compromises we are willing to make and what promises we intend to keep. Just words? I hope not. Time will tell, but it seems there is a deeper understanding now. Update: ended horribly after a week, his actions contradicted his words sadly. I think from now on, an ex will remain an ex.
Minadee Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 broke up in november 2011, FWB for about 2 months, he asked me out countless amounts of times but I was too afraid of getting my heart broken again, acted like we were togethet ill septemebr 2012 and I fall back in love with him and he's had enough and left recently. Sucks.
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