shadow15 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 (edited) We been no contact for about a week now, been broke up for a month. Last week when we talked, we kinda argued in a way so that i could get my closure. I feel great now and she doesnt cross my mind as much, i of course still miss her at times, but everything is getting better. I know i shouldnt txt her back, i guess i just came here to tell others and possibly give me some advice. By the way, she just said hey, and it was a lower case h, which means i can tell she was contemplating on messaging me for a while cause i know her phone always makes the first letter capitalized. Its kinda funny that she messaged me as well, this past weekend i went to my old college and hung out with some buddies, guess shes a little curious or something, idk. If i was to txt back, maybe i should be like whose number is this or sumin rude along those lines. i think i may just let this one go though, i txted her wanting to ask her one last question last week but she never replied, guess im going do the same. Edited October 29, 2012 by shadow15
Chi townD Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Do you think that a simple text stating "hey" dignifies a response? She knows that the last time you two communicated it didn't end well. She trying to leave the relationship on a good note. Problem is, you two left the relationship already. Let sleeping dogs lie.
TopCat22 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Ignore. Unless she says something substantial. Even then I'd think twice. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 "hey" is not a reason to break NC if you want to go NC. Make her send something of substance.
Author shadow15 Posted November 1, 2012 Author Posted November 1, 2012 sounds like a plan guys, i appreciate it. Also i was wrong about it being a week later, it has actually been two weeks. I know that doesnt make a difference, i just wanted to clear that up. I was also fine the first 2 days without replying; however, this evening something reminded me of her and i almost caved in sending a txt saying "yea,". But i didnt as bad as i wanted to, if she wants something to say to me, shes going have to say more than just "hey".
witmadskilllz Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 ignore completely, that is, if you want to completely heal and move on. Stick with NC.
mishy Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 you need to IGNORE this one and heres why. She will follow up with something else, and then you might get more of an idea of what she wants without having to break NC' its breadcrumbs, dont fall for it
mishy Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 "hey" isnt even a proper Hello, "hey' is really annoying, it means nothing as a greeting
NavyAirTraffic Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Mine just sent me 12 unanswered text, 12 breadcrumbs. I responded with "I'm seeing someone (which I'm not) so please leave me alone". That prompted 20 more texts, not nice ones, which she ultimately admitted cheating on me. Almost bragged about it, disgusting. Take her "hey" and shove it, but you won't. Curiosity always kills the cat.
theLWord Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Mine just sent me 12 unanswered text, 12 breadcrumbs. I responded with "I'm seeing someone (which I'm not) so please leave me alone". That prompted 20 more texts, not nice ones, which she ultimately admitted cheating on me. Almost bragged about it, disgusting. Take her "hey" and shove it, but you won't. Curiosity always kills the cat. Wow, real nice of her! Aren't you glad you don't have to deal with the craziness anymore?
NavyAirTraffic Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Wow, real nice of her! Aren't you glad you don't have to deal with the craziness anymore? It's complicated.....
KatZee Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 Mine just sent me 12 unanswered text, 12 breadcrumbs. I responded with "I'm seeing someone (which I'm not) so please leave me alone". That prompted 20 more texts, not nice ones, which she ultimately admitted cheating on me. Almost bragged about it, disgusting. Take her "hey" and shove it, but you won't. Curiosity always kills the cat. Did you see this thread? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/354661-angry-ex Sounds like she wanted to knock you down when you were high (even though you made it up).
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