that dude Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months now. She is everything i always wanted in a girlfriend. She treats me right and I really enjoy spending time with her. With all that being said, I dont have feelings for her and I'm not sure why. She told me that she loved me a short time ago and I said it back because I really wish that I did. I'm staying in this relationship in hopes that I will fall in love with her, but Im confused as to why it hasent happened. I am getting frustrated that I can't feel anything for her and I took it out on her last night by saying that I need a break. I took it back today though. She hasent done anything to deserve to be treated like that and I care about her a lot. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any advice would be appreciated.
AlexDP Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months now. She is everything i always wanted in a girlfriend. She treats me right and I really enjoy spending time with her. With all that being said, I dont have feelings for her and I'm not sure why. She told me that she loved me a short time ago and I said it back because I really wish that I did. I'm staying in this relationship in hopes that I will fall in love with her, but Im confused as to why it hasent happened. I am getting frustrated that I can't feel anything for her and I took it out on her last night by saying that I need a break. I took it back today though. She hasent done anything to deserve to be treated like that and I care about her a lot. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any advice would be appreciated. How did you become boyfriend and girlfriend?
xdahliax Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 You don't love her after 9 months? I can develop stronger feelings for an inanimate object in that amount of time. Move on.
Author that dude Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 We hung out a few times and I thought she was really cool and nice so I asked her out and she said yes
mammasita Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 We hung out a few times and I thought she was really cool and nice so I asked her out and she said yes maybe you shouldn't have "asked her out" so soon. How old are you BTW?
Author that dude Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 maybe you shouldn't have "asked her out" so soon. How old are you BTW? Im 22, shes 21
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