mammasita Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Well, almost a month ago, my "estranged BF" moved out of my place because he wasn't sure about his feelings, felt like he needed to be able to take care of himself and have his own place since he had never been in that position before. A day after he moved out, he let me know that he wanted to continue being in a committed relationship but not live together. After two weeks of mulling it over and being EXTREMELY emotional, I told him I needed a couple weeks of no contact to sort out my emotions. I planned on contacting him at the end of this week to discuss where we were and if it was truly going anywhere. Well he had contacted me Saturday to see if I was staying in town to ride out the hurricane and he let me know that if I needed anything or had trouble to call/text him - he would find a way to get to me. Kinda wished he hadn't because I was on a roll LOL, but I was happy that he did. So at this point, I'm ready to talk to him and I feel like I'm strong enough to let him go and move on if he isn't able to give me what I need.....and what I want is a strong commitment with, most importantly, his actions backing up his words as well as more open and frequent communication.
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