vaka Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 things you should know: 3 months since she dumped me we study in the same university 6 weeks ago a friend told me that he saw her kissing with someone since last month she is texting me a lot and want clousure Well, she dumped me because she "needed" time for collage, church, her friends etc. I accepted her decision, but i was really hurt so i did LC (she studies in the same university, also we have the same group of friends). First two months were great, had time for me!!! after that time she began to text me and contact me for no reason, asking silly questions, auto inviting her to party's in my house... i was so confused that i told her that i still loved her, she rejected me and she told me i'm her best friend... after telling her that, she sought even more clousure, now she texts me EVERYDAY! and i'm really confuse, i still love her and i dont want to be a friend. ohh! funny fact, last week she said "I have too much free time"
rach24680 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 she sounds like a bit of a bitch, she doesnt wana be with u but she wants u around to make herself feel better. tell her u dont want to be her "best friend" because its too hard for u. go NC and let her suffer, if she wants u back shel come, but i wouldnt get back with her she seems like shes playing games
Author vaka Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 yeah, i'm starting to think the same... I was thinking in acting indiferent and after that full nc, vacations will arrive in like... 3 weeks, i was thinking in disappearing without telling her. is that ok? i already told her im not her best friend, i told her we are "buddies"...
Chi townD Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 yeah, i'm starting to think the same... I was thinking in acting indiferent and after that full nc, vacations will arrive in like... 3 weeks, i was thinking in disappearing without telling her. is that ok? i already told her im not her best friend, i told her we are "buddies"... Dude, you're not even "buddies". I'm sure that you didn't get into a caring and loving relationship with the end result being nothing more than her "little buddy" as she running around campus making out with whoever.... Disappear without telling her? Dude, she dumped you. You don't need to tell her anything. You don't owe her anything. She made the choice to have you out of her life. So, give her exactly what she wants.
Author vaka Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 Dude, you're not even "buddies". I'm sure that you didn't get into a caring and loving relationship with the end result being nothing more than her "little buddy" as she running around campus making out with whoever.... Disappear without telling her? Dude, she dumped you. You don't need to tell her anything. You don't owe her anything. She made the choice to have you out of her life. So, give her exactly what she wants. harsh but true... thanks for your advice
Chi townD Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I don't mean to be harsh. I just need you to find your dignity. Because, guess what? You're worth a girl who will treat you with respect. Who won't lie to you and would love to spend her "free time" with you. You can't change the way she feels, but you can change the direction that your life is going and not get stuck in one place banking on false hope. Time to start healing, going NC and moving on to bigger and better things.
Author vaka Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 im thinking the same, i just needed to hear it from anybody else, thanks man! i had to clear up my mind!
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