ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Okay so we have been in like 55-58 days of no contact and today I posted a status about how I start my freshman year in college in Janurary. This is the first status I have posted in like a month and a half. She liked it when I posted it and that was 6 hours ago. But now I just signed back in before bed and I had a message from her in my inbox, first it was, "good luck with school." I didn't reply. I then signed out and just signed back in and she sent me ANOTHER message 2 minutes after that that says, "I'm sure you hate me and that's fine but I'm sorry.". I haven't replied to this one either. Hmmmm. I just received these two messages like 3 minutes ago and now I'm sitting on them. I'm not going to reply of course because that would be breaking no contact. This is her just trying to ease her quilt right? I'm not dumb and I'm not going to message her back. So only she knows what she is thinking right now. God I hate this F****** girl. I wish she would just realize.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 Why haven't you blocked her yet? Because I'm stupid! I should now huh? That would tell her how I feel about her.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Because I'm stupid! I should now huh? That would tell her how I feel about her. Yes, you should have when you were getting all worked up about her Facebook activity two days ago. It's obvious that her being a friend of yours on Facebook is causing you stress. Block her now. If she still wants to talk, she has your number.
veggirl Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 The opposite of love is indifference, so I don't think you are as over her as you claimed to be in your other thread. It would really be in your best interest to block / delete her from your FB--no good is coming from her being on there (except I thought it made you get over her? lol)
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 The opposite of love is indifference, so I don't think you are as over her as you claimed to be in your other thread. It would really be in your best interest to block / delete her from your FB--no good is coming from her being on there (except I thought it made you get over her? lol) It helped I said lol. I said I wasn't completely over her but that that would help. Which it also just did AGAIN!!! Since I got those two messages from her I went to her page and she just posted a status that said, "Maybe things wouldn't be like this if she had gone through with her original plan...**** this.". SHES TALKING ABOUT HERSELF! SHE KNOWS SHE MADE A MISTAKE!!!!!! I JUST KNOW IT!!!!!!! WHY WONT SHE SAY THAT!!!!
Simon Phoenix Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 It helped I said lol. I said I wasn't completely over her but that that would help. Which it also just did AGAIN!!! Since I got those two messages from her I went to her page and she just posted a status that said, "Maybe things wouldn't be like this if she had gone through with her original plan...**** this.". SHES TALKING ABOUT HERSELF! SHE KNOWS SHE MADE A MISTAKE!!!!!! I JUST KNOW IT!!!!!!! WHY WONT SHE SAY THAT!!!! Dude, block her now. Stop this.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 Yes, you should have when you were getting all worked up about her Facebook activity two days ago. It's obvious that her being a friend of yours on Facebook is causing you stress. Block her now. If she still wants to talk, she has your number. Your right. I just feel I KNOW that she is making a mistake and she is starting to realize it TOOO!!! THATS WHY SHE MESSAGED ME! She just posted a status BEFORE she sent me these messages that said, "Maybe things woulnd't be like this is she had gone with her original plan...**** this." SHE IS TALKING ABOUT HER!!! SHE KNOWS SHE MADE A MISTAKE! I JUST KNOW IT! SHES JUST SOOOOOO STUBBORN TO COME OUT AND SAY IT! I KNOW HER! SHE STILL LOVES ME!!!!
Simon Phoenix Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Your right. I just feel I KNOW that she is making a mistake and she is starting to realize it TOOO!!! THATS WHY SHE MESSAGED ME! She just posted a status BEFORE she sent me these messages that said, "Maybe things woulnd't be like this is she had gone with her original plan...**** this." SHE IS TALKING ABOUT HER!!! SHE KNOWS SHE MADE A MISTAKE! I JUST KNOW IT! SHES JUST SOOOOOO STUBBORN TO COME OUT AND SAY IT! I KNOW HER! SHE STILL LOVES ME!!!! Even if that was true (which you have no idea), the state of mind you are in would guarantee that you'd screw it up. You are typing in all caps and using a ton of exclamation points. You are in no state to get her back in the long term right now. You need to stop messing with Facebook. Block her this instant and stop being a fool. If you are right, she'll text or call you. She knows how to get a hold of you. But yeah, you are just going to screw it up if you don't block her and stop acting like a crazy person.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 Wait... What!?!?!?! How is this possible?!?!?!?! Earlier today you were 100% certain that your Ex's pride and ego would make it impossible for her to contact you. Are you sure it's her? Did you cast a spell on her? she possessed by a demon? lol. Remember how I said earlier that I know she is starting to realize her mistake she made. Well now her mistake is SINKING IN and that's why she messaged me. And that's why she posted that status about herself. I still think she would admit to her mistake though. Maybe she will if I ignored these messages and keep no contact.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 Even if that was true (which you have no idea), the state of mind you are in would guarantee that you'd screw it up. You are typing in all caps and using a ton of exclamation points. You are in no state to get her back in the long term right now. You need to stop messing with Facebook. Block her this instant and stop being a fool. If you are right, she'll text or call you. She knows how to get a hold of you. But yeah, you are just going to screw it up if you don't block her and stop acting like a crazy person. Your right. I need to calm down lol. Wooooosaaaah. Your right! FACEBOOK done. But if I block her I won't be able to see statuses like those that make me feel good. lol. I NEVER look at her page unless she lies something of mine. I don't stalk her, she stalks me! I NEVER like anything of hers. I think it's good keeping her on there. She gets to see what's she's missing out on. Ooooo I don't want to screw it up . I feel if I delete her she will HATE me. :/
Simon Phoenix Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Your right. I need to calm down lol. Wooooosaaaah. Your right! FACEBOOK done. But if I block her I won't be able to see statuses like those that make me feel good. lol. I NEVER look at her page unless she lies something of mine. I don't stalk her, she stalks me! I NEVER like anything of hers. I think it's good keeping her on there. She gets to see what's she's missing out on. Ooooo I don't want to screw it up . I feel if I delete her she will HATE me. :/ You can't handle it though. You are acting like a buffoon. If you could handle it, I'd say keep her. I have my ex on Facebook and she can keep as many tabs on me as she wants. Difference is that I have her news feed blocked and I have disciplined myself not to look at her page under any circumstances. You obviously don't have the willpower to do that, which is OK, it took me a while before I could do that. And you aren't screwing it up by blocking her. If anything, that might make her come back at you more via text or phone. You are definitely going to screw up if you act the way you are typing. You'll scare her right off. And it's up to her to convince you not to hate her -- you shouldn't give two s--ts about what she thinks right now.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 You can't handle it though. You are acting like a buffoon. If you could handle it, I'd say keep her. I have my ex on Facebook and she can keep as many tabs on me as she wants. Difference is that I have her news feed blocked and I have disciplined myself not to look at her page under any circumstances. You obviously don't have the willpower to do that, which is OK, it took me a while before I could do that. And you aren't screwing it up by blocking her. If anything, that might make her come back at you more via text or phone. You are definitely going to screw up if you act the way you are typing. You'll scare her right off. And it's up to her to convince you not to hate her -- you shouldn't give two s--ts about what she thinks right now. Well I COULD handle it back then! But then her birthday came and that f'd EERYTHING up lol. I can go back to my old ways and not look at it. I did once ill do it again and this time I'll stick with it. You are totally right man. I'm not typing this way to her lol nor would I act like that. If she were to ever come back I wouldn't take her back right then and there. I learned my mistake the hard way the first time I caughtt her. But you are right I just fell in love what you just said right there, "it's up to her to convince you not to hate her." I like that. I hope she goes through with that but for now I feel good that she at least remembers me. Means she loved me at some point right? Or she wouldn't even of wanted to message me. Only she knows. I guess time will tell. An time will heal as it has been.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Well I COULD handle it back then! But then her birthday came and that f'd EERYTHING up lol. I can go back to my old ways and not look at it. I did once ill do it again and this time I'll stick with it. You are totally right man. I'm not typing this way to her lol nor would I act like that. If she were to ever come back I wouldn't take her back right then and there. I learned my mistake the hard way the first time I caughtt her. But you are right I just fell in love what you just said right there, "it's up to her to convince you not to hate her." I like that. I hope she goes through with that but for now I feel good that she at least remembers me. Means she loved me at some point right? Or she wouldn't even of wanted to message me. Only she knows. I guess time will tell. An time will heal as it has been. Trust me, if all of this garbage is reverberating in your head now it will come out in some way when you interact with her. And stop trying to guess what she's thinking. You don't know and you will never know. Just relax, step back and let her come to you. Stop acting like a loon and trying to guess at what she is doing. For all you know she could be reacting to something that has nothing to do with you. If it has something to do with you, she'll contact you via text or phone. But you are just going to drive yourself crazy if you continue what you are doing. Hell, you are almost there.
mishy Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 YOU NEED TO STAY NC SO THAT THE ERRORS OF HER WAYS FULLY TAKE ok caps, there but calm down!!! You need to wait a while. Dont do anything yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 YOU NEED TO STAY NC SO THAT THE ERRORS OF HER WAYS FULLY TAKE ok caps, there but calm down!!! You need to wait a while. Dont do anything yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh I am. Like the others said. That could have not even Ben about me. I'm not doing anything over 2 little Facebook messages. Not even close. Only time will tell.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Oh I am. Like the others said. That could have not even Ben about me. I'm not doing anything over 2 little Facebook messages. Not even close. Only time will tell. Have you blocked/defriended her on Facebook yet?
ParadeRain Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 (edited) Last laugh - Kiwi6 Mp3 Upload - SNM For those who don't know, this is a song ReadMyThread made, it tells the story... you can give him advise on what to do based on this... he's heart broken and can't think straight on the situation himself... but from the outside the right thing for him to do is clear. Edited October 29, 2012 by ParadeRain
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