What do you think about this behavior from my ex/fwb?

[Beatrixx]

My ex and I have recently got back in touch after two months of no contact. Our break up was two months ago as well. We met up for coffee and the attraction was still there in a BIG way. We ended up sleeping together. Since that meeting we've hung out and slept together a few more times but neither of us have mentioned anything about still having feelings or reconciling so we are definitely NOT back together.

 

The last time we communicated was Thursday when we sent a few texts to each other. I sent the last text but he didn't reply. Now, exactly three days later, he has texted me saying 'Hey you! Why so quiet!?' I think it's a bit odd that he asks why I'm being quiet. I thought he should be the one to initiate the communication considering I was the one who sent the last text? And anyway... we're not a couple anymore so why is he being so accusing?

[Emilia]

The last time we communicated was Thursday when we sent a few texts to each other. I sent the last text but he didn't reply. Now, exactly three days later, he has texted me saying 'Hey you! Why so quiet!?' I think it's a bit odd that he asks why I'm being quiet. I thought he should be the one to initiate the communication considering I was the one who sent the last text? And anyway... we're not a couple anymore so why is he being so accusing?

 

Maybe he forgot that you sent the last text? Maybe he is used to more confident people who don't micro-analyse every single time who sent the last text? It seems you are the one who is being 'accusing', he is only trying to be friendly and maybe spend time with you. Jeeeez