numberone Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I was the dumpee, she was the dumper. She left me, I was too clingy and got too comfortable. She wanted time to figure out things and go out and explore. She told me last week she really liked me still, and missed me after we went a week no contact. She told me it was for the best until we both changed. So I went out and got my mind off of the matter at a party. Met a girl, and it was nice. We took pictures on my friends phone, which he uploaded and tagged me. Next thing you know my ex deactivated her facebook. Not sure if she saw the pictures or not, THEN not even 30 minutes later, her room mate(bestfriend) adds me( i deleted her a few weeks ago, knowing i would probably not get back with my ex) CAn anyone tell me whats going on?! are they "talking" and conspiring something? What to do, should I accept her friends facebook request?
gamman Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 (edited) I'll guess... Your ex is probably hurt and trying to heal after seeing the pics. You didn't cause this -- you are allowed to go out, live your life, and have fun. Her best friend is being nosy and wants to report your actions to your ex. It's also a way your ex can check up on you without you knowing it. Again, this is all just a guess. What I do know... No you should not add her. Go back to NC with your ex, and go NC with her friend, too. Keep moving forward. Edited October 29, 2012 by gamman
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