youaretheone Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Ok, this is like one of the "Is she interested?" threads but it's not at the same time because I kind of have the feeling that she is. (I am not clueless.) But still wanted to have public opinion. I went to this wine tasting gathering, talked very little to a woman I find attractive there, learned out that she lives in the same town with me. When I was leaving with a female friend of mine, she asked me if I am going to the train station and follows us there. My female friend accompanies us to our train and says goodbye. Finally, we take the same train back home and have a chat on our way. After a while, in the middle of our conversation, she strangely starts asking about my friend who accompanied us to the train. First she asks how I know her and then she asks why she followed us until the train. When I asked her why she is that curious about her, she said she was just curious if she would take another train? All of a sudden, 30 minutes after we left her there? After I said goodbye, I got a spark in my head telling me that she might actually be asking those questions because she is interested to see if my friend is my girlfriend! Maybe I am being imaginative but if I realized this earlier, I would at least make an attempt to get her number or ask her out. Do you think I should be hitting my head on the wall for missing a good opportunity? I have her Facebook now but I find it weird to ask women out online.
xdahliax Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 She could quite possibly be interested, but there isn't enough information. Chat her up on Facebook and see how it goes.
mammasita Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Sounds like interest to Me. Facebook her and ask for her number, ask her out on the phone.
Ami1uwant Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 she doesnt know who your female friend is and if she is competition to you or an ex. Especially true if when talking to you she didnt realize you were with her until later on or she initially thought you two were a couple.
rubberduck Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Sounds interested to me. I don't think that was just general chitchat I'd ask her out for coffee or something, then maybe ask her for a proper date when you're there if you're interested too!
Author youaretheone Posted October 29, 2012 Author Posted October 29, 2012 Chatted her up on Facebook today and asked her out for a coffee on Wednesday. Said she is busy and didn't suggest another time. Assumed she is not interested (or low interest), moving on to the next. 1
rubberduck Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Ah sorry, oh well! Nothing lost by asking 1
todreaminblue Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 Ok, this is like one of the "Is she interested?" threads but it's not at the same time because I kind of have the feeling that she is. (I am not clueless.) But still wanted to have public opinion. I went to this wine tasting gathering, talked very little to a woman I find attractive there, learned out that she lives in the same town with me. When I was leaving with a female friend of mine, she asked me if I am going to the train station and follows us there. My female friend accompanies us to our train and says goodbye. Finally, we take the same train back home and have a chat on our way. After a while, in the middle of our conversation, she strangely starts asking about my friend who accompanied us to the train. First she asks how I know her and then she asks why she followed us until the train. When I asked her why she is that curious about her, she said she was just curious if she would take another train? All of a sudden, 30 minutes after we left her there? After I said goodbye, I got a spark in my head telling me that she might actually be asking those questions because she is interested to see if my friend is my girlfriend! Maybe I am being imaginative but if I realized this earlier, I would at least make an attempt to get her number or ask her out. Do you think I should be hitting my head on the wall for missing a good opportunity? I have her Facebook now but I find it weird to ask women out online. I normally go in a round about way to see if a guy has a girlfriend(the test flight) ill ask common friends what he does who he spends time with and slip that question in there and then when i find out he is single....ill just kamikaze and say hey i have feelings for you ......luckily this doesnt happen very often with me developing feelings for someone so i only have to kamikaze once a millenium....smilin...yes it does sound like an interest i think you should talk to her on face book and take it slow...you dont have to kamikaze as she already did....so go for the joy flight....lol....groan analogys' today coming thick and fast........deb
Mrlonelyone Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 I normally go in a round about way to see if a guy has a girlfriend(the test flight) ill ask common friends what he does who he spends time with and slip that question in there a man wrote that it'd make him a stalker. JK then when i find out he is single....ill just kamikaze and say hey i have feelings for you ......luckily this doesnt happen very often with me developing feelings for someone so i only have to kamikaze once a millenium....smilin...yes it does sound like an interest i think you should talk to her on face book and take it slow...you dont have to kamikaze as she already did....so go for the joy flight....lol....groan analogys' today coming thick and fast........deb I agree with this though. She certainly has some interest. The thing about interest is it isn't a constant. In varies from time to time, rises and falls and ebbs and flows. She may not have answered you right off the first call, but it's worth calling at least twice.
Author youaretheone Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 todreaminblue and mrlonelyone, as I have written above, I invited her over a coffee on facebook but she said she is busy this week and that's it. I at least expected her to ask "Maybe some other time?" but she didn't so I am assuming she has low interest and move on. Don't you think so?
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