ReadMyThread Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Hey everyone, So I was wondering. If you have been in no contact for sometime and you thought your ex is realizing her mistake she made of dumping you OR IF SHE EVER DID, do you think her pride or ego would hold her back on wanting to fix her mistake and be with you again? Or her being stubborn? I have a feeling my ex is realizing she made a mistake but I KNOW the type of girl she is and I have a STRONG feeling that even if she did realize she made a mistake, her ego would get in the way of contacting me. And her being stubborn. She also thinks my family hates her because of what she did to me so I also feel that would be another reason she wouldn't reach out even if she really wanted to and wanted to be with me again. I feel like I will NEVER hear form this girl again. Do you think these things matter? Pride? Ego? Stubborn-ness? I was reading in the second chances forum section about how one of the Dumpers (which was a girl) wanted to get back with her ex after a period of no contact time but she didn't want to get rejected because of she did to him so she never did. What do you guys think? I think it would stop them in some situations.
jayy23 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Hey everyone, So I was wondering. If you have been in no contact for sometime and you thought your ex is realizing her mistake she made of dumping you OR IF SHE EVER DID, do you think her pride or ego would hold her back on wanting to fix her mistake and be with you again? Or her being stubborn? I have a feeling my ex is realizing she made a mistake but I KNOW the type of girl she is and I have a STRONG feeling that even if she did realize she made a mistake, her ego would get in the way of contacting me. And her being stubborn. She also thinks my family hates her because of what she did to me so I also feel that would be another reason she wouldn't reach out even if she really wanted to and wanted to be with me again. I feel like I will NEVER hear form this girl again. Do you think these things matter? Pride? Ego? Stubborn-ness? I was reading in the second chances forum section about how one of the Dumpers (which was a girl) wanted to get back with her ex after a period of no contact time but she didn't want to get rejected because of she did to him so she never did. What do you guys think? I think it would stop them in some situations. I've been in NC for nearly 4months now not heard anything from her honestly thought by now she would have tried to contact me but obviously not. Mines the same she thinks my family hate her for leaving me but that's not true I tried to explain that to her last time we spoke. She wouldn't even come over to talk because she didnt want to see my parents. My parents don't hate her atall but she don't blv me. I don't have a clue if she feels any regret I hope she does tho haha. Im beginning to doubt if I will ever here from her again.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Maybe for a while, but if she really wants to get ahold of you, she will. 1
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 I've been in NC for nearly 4months now not heard anything from her honestly thought by now she would have tried to contact me but obviously not. Mines the same she thinks my family hate her for leaving me but that's not true I tried to explain that to her last time we spoke. She wouldn't even come over to talk because she didnt want to see my parents. My parents don't hate her atall but she don't blv me. I don't have a clue if she feels any regret I hope she does tho haha. Im beginning to doubt if I will ever here from her again. See same thing happened to me :/. Last time I seen her I told her my family doesn't hate her and she said, "I won't be able to see them anymore while we are together." Then dumped me the next day... I feel she that will hold her back forever. She's too insecure.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 Maybe for a while, but if she really wants to get ahold of you, she will. I don't think so man. Things like ego pride and being immature could stop them forever even if they wanted to I feel. But I don't know. My ex is still liking **** on my Facebook so I have no idea what te hell she is thinking.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I don't think so man. Things like ego pride and being immature could stop them forever even if they wanted to I feel. But I don't know. My ex is still liking **** on my Facebook so I have no idea what te hell she is thinking. Nah, if she really wants to contact you she will. Eventually the ego will tell her to do that. And you really have to block her on Facebook already. It's pretty stupid that you haven't at this point considering your breakdown a few days ago.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 If you think your Ex doesn't contact you because of the other guy, her ego and pride... Put on your suit of armor, jump on your white horse, go slay the dragon (her new guy, her ego and pride), climb the tower and rescue your Ex? Man up and go get her! You think so!? What if I try to open up conversation and she just sh*** on my heart again telling me she doesn't want anything to do with me lol. Ugh the pain that would bring again. Your giving me the words that make me want to contact her! Ugh! Lol. I think I want to :/. I just don't want to hurt anymore.
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 If you think your Ex doesn't contact you because of the other guy, her ego and pride... Put on your suit of armor, jump on your white horse, go slay the dragon (her new guy, her ego and pride), climb the tower and rescue your Ex? Man up and go get her! I'm pretty sure this was sarcasm, no I'm sure of it, its sarcasm! 1
dreamstate83 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 If ego/stubbornness/pride keeps my ex from ever contacting me, then I view that as a good thing. Who wants to be with someone who puts their own ego in front of a relationship?
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 If ego/stubbornness/pride keeps my ex from ever contacting me, then I view that as a good thing. Who wants to be with someone who puts their own ego in front of a relationship? This Is exactly what I needed to hear thank you so much.
mvc Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 id say the ex doesnt want to see your family because of the guilt they may feel for doing what they did? my ex is the stubborn type and all that and tbh i never expect to hear from her again. i tried to reach out to her once and she rejected it so ball is in her court, im moving on with my life
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