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Yesterday my bf said he would call me after he played golf to hang out. I texted him once around 6pm asking how golf was. I texted him over an hour later saying 'k well I'll talk to ya later nite' bc I figured he passed out. He texts me around 8pm saying he passed out and golf was blah. I just replied 'cool' bc at this point it was getting late and we usually meet up at 7pm.

 

He knows I have to get up at 6am for work so I dont stay out too late. Im glad he took a nap but he passed out for three hrs. I guess I was disappointed bc i had turned down plans with my friend bc I thought I was meeting up with my bf. When i texted him 'cool' he called but I didnt pick up. He then texted asking me something and I didnt respond. He called again and I picked up. I didnt say much and sounded distant. I was bummed but i knew id be over it quickly but at the time I didnt feel like talking.

 

He asked if I was okay and I said I was fine. He thought we were still meeting up but I said it was already 8 and thought we were hanging out earlier. He said he passed out and was sorry. The call only lasted two min but he could tell I was down. I know he didnt do it on purpose and im not disappointed anymore but I was wondering if any of you get like that where you just dont feel like talking to the person if youre disappointed with them. The whole thing isnt even a big deal but now I feel bad for coming off distant.

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I don't get the whole passing out thing. It seems like an excuse. I know two guys who always say they've "passed out" as an excuse for flaking. I have very little respect for them, as I feel they have little respect for me. I'm fully in control of when I sleep. If I know I have somewhere to be and I'm drifting or plan on taking a nap, I'll use an alarm.

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Passing out and taking a nap are two different things.. this guy drank so much during the day and the moment he laid down he was incapacitated. Seemingly something an early 20-something would do. Also, alarms don't work when you're obliterated :bunny:

 

Oh. I thought she meant that he fell asleep. Language barrier.

 

So that's even more unbecoming.

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Passing out and taking a nap are two different things.. this guy drank so much during the day and the moment he laid down he was incapacitated. Seemingly something an early 20-something would do. Also, alarms don't work when you're obliterated :bunny:

 

thats so true lol

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The thing is hes not flaky at all and does like his sleep but I still thought it was inconsiderate of my time. When he called me he really didnt think anything was wrong but I know by the way I sounded and mentioned it was already 8 that he knew I was disappointed. I shouldnt have said I was fine when I wasnt at the time. Im over it now but im not sure if I should bring up how I felt last night or just move on because I think he got the idea. We have never argued before and I dont think this should turn into one. We didnt have an arranged time to meet up but I still think he could have reached out to me sooner.

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The thing is hes not flaky at all and does like his sleep but I still thought it was inconsiderate of my time. When he called me he really didnt think anything was wrong but I know by the way I sounded and mentioned it was already 8 that he knew I was disappointed. I shouldnt have said I was fine when I wasnt at the time. Im over it now but im not sure if I should bring up how I felt last night or just move on because I think he got the idea. We have never argued before and I dont think this should turn into one. We didnt have an arranged time to meet up but I still think he could have reached out to me sooner.

 

It's important to express how you feel so that it stops happening.

 

Taya, I mean this in the nicest way possible: every time you post, it feels like you're shoving your boobs in my face ;)

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Hes not a man of his word.

he could have sent a quick text saying hes tired.

 

Dude was doing something he shouldnt have been doing.

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thats so true lol

 

 

 

 

So many fakes use this pic.

that aint u...

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It's important to express how you feel so that it stops happening.

 

Taya, I mean this in the nicest way possible: every time you post, it feels like you're shoving your boobs in my face ;)[/QU

 

HAHAHAHA OMG :lmao:

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so many fakes use this pic.

That aint u...

 

 

lol ok haha I EAR YA NOT GOING TO FIGHT WITH YOU THO

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lol ok haha I EAR YA NOT GOING TO FIGHT WITH YOU THO

 

 

Girl stop.

That poor girls picture has been used so many times.

Friggin ugly girls like u ned to get a grip and accept you are ugly and thats it.

 

Fake

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Girl stop.

That poor girls picture has been used so many times.

Friggin ugly girls like u ned to get a grip and accept you are ugly and thats it.

 

Fake

 

hahaha i love your words ugly wow everone on here will surly see your true nature and i can get really dirty and nasty and tell you some words ****ing words but am going to back off and dont respond .,.your unhappy with your self and thats the ****ing problem am on here to help people not to argure with someone over pics omg this is not what people come on here for so have some respect for others.. your posting **** on some ones post thats writing to get some help sorry boo its not about you or me its about the person that post this post ...and i wont respond any more so have a great ****ing life know wonder your on here bacause your life is **** up and you come on here with the same bull ****

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hahaha i love your words ugly wow everone on here will surly see your true nature and i acn get really dirty and nasty and tell you some words ****ing words but am going to back off and dont respond .,.your unhappy with your self and thats the ****ing problem am on here to help people not to argure with someone over pics omg this is not what people come on here for so have some respect for others.. your posting **** on some ones post thats writing to get some help sorry boo its not about you or me its about the person that post this post ...and i wont respond any more so have a great ****ing life know wonder your on here bacause your life is **** up and you come on here with the same bull ****

Cool story,babe.

How about you respect the real girl in the photo and stop trying to take her idenity thats not fair to her.

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Cool story,babe.

How about you respect the real girl in the photo and stop trying to take her idenity thats not fair to her.

 

 

your unhappy thats why you trying to bring others down see you dont know me why would you start calling me names i never troble you see thats why people like you will never change you know why beacuse your **** up and i mean **** up ...i went and read a few of your post and yes you sure are unhappy plz dont **** with me your ****ing with the wrong one when i start i dont stop turse me you dont want to argue with me just saying ;;; so leave me alone and **** off

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your unhappy thats why you trying to bring others down see you dont know me why would you start calling me names i never troble you see thats why people like you will never change you know why beacuse your **** up and i mean **** up ...i went and read a few of your post and yes you sure are unhappy plz dont **** with me your ****ing with the wrong one when i start i dont stop turse me you dont want to argue with me just saying ;;; so leave me alone and **** off[/QUOT

 

STOP USING OTHER GIRLS PICTURES. NO MATTER WHAT.. YOUll NEVER HAVE THAT PRETTY FACE.

 

Get your head checked and learn how to love yoursslf. Goodbye .

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your unhappy thats why you trying to bring others down see you dont know me why would you start calling me names i never troble you see thats why people like you will never change you know why beacuse your **** up and i mean **** up ...i went and read a few of your post and yes you sure are unhappy plz dont **** with me your ****ing with the wrong one when i start i dont stop turse me you dont want to argue with me just saying ;;; so leave me alone and **** off[/QUOT

 

STOP USING OTHER GIRLS PICTURES. NO MATTER WHAT.. YOUll NEVER HAVE THAT PRETTY FACE.

 

Get your head checked and learn how to love yoursslf. Goodbye .

 

 

lol girl IF YOU really want to see its me i will send you a pic and you need to get your head checked lol and to love my self lol baby am not the one posting ASking people if they would date me on here you are..i know i can walk down the street and get a date you saying your not satisfied down there all those **** you posting your talking about love my self .. those are low blows am doing but you ask for it but i can send a pic of me and also am very pretty thats why i can use my pic but were is yours ..and your the ugly one thats why your calling other woman ugly you think low of your self and you are a low life will never be better beacuse as i say your **** up thats why no man wants you ;;and if you post to me again i will expose more **** you post on here you mess with wrong one ...LOOK OVER ALL THE STUFF YOU POST ON THIS SITE AND TELL ME WHICH ONE OF US NEDD TO GET YOUR HEAD CHECKED :lmao:

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look how many people have pics up on this site it could be them it could not but its not my business i could care less what other people do we not on here for that but to help people bitch this is not a dating site people can do what they want ...about am ugly jealousy is a bitch and i can tell thats your problem in real life :o

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