yogurtu Posted August 1, 2004 Posted August 1, 2004 How about starting a 12-step program for OWs/OMs/MMs/MWs? Is there anything already in place? Would anyone want to take part of this effort? Why or why not?
saintfrancis Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 I would not. 12-step implies addiction. Having an affair is NOT an addiction, I don't care what anyone says. It's a choice. Period.
kiababy Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 saintfrancis I would not. 12-step implies addiction. Having an affair is NOT an addiction, I don't care what anyone says. It's a choice. Period. Have you been in this situation yourself? If not then you don't know what you're talking about - if you have, please read the 'Love Addiction' symptoms: http://mysticcat.angelcities.com/reladdict.html
fanou22 Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 I would take part in that if it helps. I might know all 12 steps to get over MM but I could think of a few. Be sure that this what you want to do and not what you have to do (breaking it off) Now this part is different for different people: Don't explain anything simply ignore him or You can explain what you are feeling and why you want out then ignore any contact attempts. Finally, look at yourself in the mirror at least 3 times a day and tell yourself "I am an amazing person and I deserve better" ............(something to smile) And always remember: when there is a will there is a way.
littleflowerpot Posted August 2, 2004 Posted August 2, 2004 Originally posted by kiababy Have you been in this situation yourself? If not then you don't know what you're talking about - if you have, please read the 'Love Addiction' symptoms: http://mysticcat.angelcities.com/reladdict.html what do you expect from someone that calls himself "saint francis"?
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