AmaruBlaXk Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 (if you're a guy) To confess your feelings to a girl you would never see again? OR (if you're a girl) To confess your feelings to a guy you would never see again? What would you say? If you didn't confess, how would you go about living with the decision you made?
xdahliax Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I wouldn't confess my feelings to someone I know I'd never see again. I assume there's a reason I'd never see them again, and confessing my feelings would just complicate things. I'd probably move on rather easily afterwards. I think it's harder to get over it once you say something, because you can't just pretend that nothing happened. If it's reciprocated, you're upset because you can't be together. If it's not reciprocated, you're upset because it's not. Lose-lose.
mortensorchid Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 If this is hypothetical, despite it's being hypothetical, I would not tell that person how I feel. Just for the fact that many have laughed at me or used information such as this against me. I think there has been a real shift in our cultural norms to confess everything publically or privately to others. Unfortunately, this is not always the best thing to do for above reasons. If you do tell that person you love them or whatever it is, they will get all shocked and react badly. Sets you up for a disappointment, so you shouldn't do it, really.
todreaminblue Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 (edited) (if you're a guy) To confess your feelings to a girl you would never see again? OR (if you're a girl) To confess your feelings to a guy you would never see again? What would you say? If you didn't confess, how would you go about living with the decision you made? This is difficult....i have always been told never hold back on telling someone how you feel in case you never see them again so when i feel i tell......however scared i am however unsure i tell in case i dont see them again....i didnt get to see my grandpa the day he died.....but he came to me in a dream just after he did die...so when i woke up i knew why my mother and step father were crying... i never got to tell my great uncle goodbye and that i loved him these men were important to me...i promised myself i would always tell men who mattered how i feel ,if i met a man who meant something and i have followed through.......i dont tell many people how i feel normally but when it involves a strong feeling i do tell and that involves guys....because it is rare.......i dont have any regrets i follow my heart and i follow what my grandfather always told me to do.....he knew how shy i was(he also knew why i was shy ) he loved the goofy me ....and never led me astray........he told me not to hold back to trust my feelings this makes me teary and i am going out.....so enough about this special guy i dont think it is bad to tell someone who you will never see again ...hey guess what you make a difference in my life i feel for you....its hard to say scary too..... it doesnt complicate things its just a god's honest truth that isnt complicated its simple and loving...that can never be bad....more men and women should do it....more love for the journey the person you will never see again can feel.be that a relative, a husband, a friend anyone...love is eternal no time limits no distance constraints no rules...feelings and emotions are not ruled by your head they are ruled by that heart your head stops them from reaching your lips and coming out of your throat...........deb Edited October 28, 2012 by todreaminblue 1
amaysngrace Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Your question is kind of confusing. If its someone I barely know then I can't really see me having deep enough feelings for me to express them. And if I had them in my life for a while then I think they'd know already how I feel about them. So there's no need to say anything.
Author AmaruBlaXk Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 I wouldn't confess my feelings to someone I know I'd never see again. I assume there's a reason I'd never see them again, and confessing my feelings would just complicate things. I'd probably move on rather easily afterwards. I think it's harder to get over it once you say something, because you can't just pretend that nothing happened. If it's reciprocated, you're upset because you can't be together. If it's not reciprocated, you're upset because it's not. Lose-lose. Feelings could be mutual and you'd never know until you put it on the table. When things that can/should be said are withheld, I believe it encourages people to think even more negatively and create a pessimistic demeanor of themselves or the situation.
River Rain Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 If feelings were possibly mutual, I'd probably express something in the way of missing them, but I wouldn't leave my heart vulnerable knowing nothing could ever happen and it was goodbye forever. 1
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