taya Posted November 1, 2012 Posted November 1, 2012 (edited) Yeah i get your point why cry over him when he is not crying over me, i get that. But that fact is he is who he is, so even if he is nice to her right now, (like he was to me at first) eventually things will show. And we dont know anything about their relationship, it could have ended 10 minutes ago for all we know Thinking that he treated me like sh%t because he didnt care and he is treating her like a princess because he does care DOES NOT help me, it makes it all worse. It is extremely unlikely that this is the case anyway because i now him really well, and i know his personality. Its not even about how he treats women but more how he treats people, and i think the coldness is just him. aww am very sorry then that i tryed to make that point if it dosent help you... you know am not trying to hurt you but just trying to give some advice .so if that doent help am sorry the reason i was trying to say all that is to open your eyes so that if another guy comes and give you the same story you will say to hell with him beacuse if he really care or love me he would have make time for me so i was trying to do a open eyes thing not to make you feel bad beacuse guess what my ex did that to me things me dident do for me he did for the other girl and when he came back to me he told me all they did and i was like wow he never did that for me or with me so from that experiance i have learn a lession that when a man wants and respect a woman he will treat her the best and give her the best beacuse he wants her and dont want her to leave him .... Edited November 1, 2012 by taya
Author mishy Posted November 1, 2012 Author Posted November 1, 2012 aww am very sorry then that i tryed to make that point if it dosent help you... you know am not trying to hurt you but just trying to give some advice .so if that doent help am sorry the reason i was trying to say all that is to open your eeys tho so that if another guy comes and give you the same story you will say to hell with him beacuse if he really care or love me he would have make time for me so i was trying to do a open eyes thing not to make you feel bad beacuse guess what my ex did that to me things me dident do for me he did for the other girl and when he came back to me he told me all they did and i was like wow he never did that for me or with me so from that experiance i have learn a lession that when a wants and respect woman he will treat her the bet and give her the beast beacuse he wants her and dont want her to leave him .... i love your advice taya, i am grateful for it. i definately wont fall into the same situation again with someone else. Will only be trading apples for apples, in that i wont be falling for anyone any more than they fall for me. Yeah when a guy wants and respects a woman he will treat her the best and give her the best beacuse he wants her and doesnt want her to leave him BUT some guys are just pigs. I do not believe he knows how to treat women well and i think that is why his wife left him from what i can gather. He is not some young guy who is still learning about women. He just doesnt know how to treat them full stop. This chick, whoever she is i truly believe he will treat her the same in the end, in one way or another. ********
taya Posted November 2, 2012 Posted November 2, 2012 i love your advice taya, i am grateful for it. i definately wont fall into the same situation again with someone else. Will only be trading apples for apples, in that i wont be falling for anyone any more than they fall for me. Yeah when a guy wants and respects a woman he will treat her the best and give her the best beacuse he wants her and doesnt want her to leave him BUT some guys are just pigs. I do not believe he knows how to treat women well and i think that is why his wife left him from what i can gather. He is not some young guy who is still learning about women. He just doesnt know how to treat them full stop. This chick, whoever she is i truly believe he will treat her the same in the end, in one way or another. ******** how are you doing today hun hope your feeling better and doing better??
Author mishy Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 how are you doing today hun hope your feeling better and doing better?? im feeling a lot better thanks Taya. I am up and down really....
taya Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 im feeling a lot better thanks Taya. I am up and down really.... aww yeah i know what you mean but soon you will start feeling alot lot better just keep fighting girl dont give up or give in ...you will find a better man real soon
Author mishy Posted November 5, 2012 Author Posted November 5, 2012 i cant PM you Taya but i have another thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/355212-one-more-time
taya Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 i cant PM you Taya but i have another thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/355212-one-more-time yeah i cant pm on here i wish i could give you my email ... i will go look on your other thread now
strummgirl Posted November 5, 2012 Posted November 5, 2012 The fact that he's left it on a cliffhanger, you're now fantasizing that he'll surprise you with a confession of his love for you. Yet your logical rational side is fully aware that this won't happen. If he really loved you, you wouldn't have to beg and plead. He also has a girlfriend !!!!!!!! I agree with the other posters. Take back control. Tell him not to bother and don't be at home when at the time he said he'd come round. Show him that you respect YOURSELF - way more than him. But even better - show YOU that you respect yourself. I think this could be a healthy step towards truly letting go of this guy.
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