irc333 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I actually think the Asian women tend to be less shallow, that they don't care as much about physical attributes as much as American women. I imagine they do to a CERTAIN extent. But they definitely will date average Joe with bald head or short (of course Asian women are short and petite anyhow....so that helps, lol) But I think that's where the attraction is, because Asian women seem to be less superficial and don't have unrealistic expectations. okay just to begin with, I do not intend to generalize. this is based on purely my experience, that all of the HOT white guys I've met think asian girls are easy - or at least, not for a long term serious girlfriend material. they mostly want to date white girls. and as an asian girl myself, this recurring experience has made me lose my confidence greatly. I am attracted to hot white studs, and they never are attracted to me. why is that? and is there anything I can do to change this whole situation? Just to add: I am in a better shape than most of the white girls - tall, fit, nice face features, etc. But just because I am asian, these guys have treated me with no respect. and I'm really hurt by that.
Els Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I actually think the Asian women tend to be less shallow, that they don't care as much about physical attributes as much as American women. I imagine they do to a CERTAIN extent. But they definitely will date average Joe with bald head or short (of course Asian women are short and petite anyhow....so that helps, lol) But I think that's where the attraction is, because Asian women seem to be less superficial and don't have unrealistic expectations. Misconception. We are all superficial, in our own ways. Men are valued for different things in traditional cultures, most notably their ability to provide financial security. That isn't any more or less superficial than height or baldness, it just is what it is. An unemployed man in most parts of Asia would have virtually zero relationship prospects, unless he was rolling in cash from his parents.
hearttopieces Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 OP, Culturally, are you Asian? Were you born and raised in the US? Or in an Asian country? In my experience, white men who have genuine interest and a 'thing' for Asian women, will more likely go for the 'culturally' Asian lady (perhaps because they are attracted to the culture). But of course this is just my personal opinion and experience.
somedude81 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 White guy here. Never dated or slept with an Asian girl. Yup, they love me long time.
crude Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I don't think your thread is accurate at all, maybe just in your life or maybe in your mind. Truth is, many of the most successful White men seem to be attracted to Asian women and marry them. Especially if they're intelligent. Look it up. http://i50.tinypic.com/21dkbia.jpg
hearttopieces Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 I don't think your thread is accurate at all, maybe just in your life or maybe in your mind. Truth is, many of the most successful White men seem to be attracted to Asian women and marry them. Especially if they're intelligent. Look it up. http://i50.tinypic.com/21dkbia.jpg But she wants hot white men.
USMCHokie Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Because when it comes to white dudes, Asian girls are that easy...being white is generally a golden ticket into the trousers of your typical Asian girl...
somedude81 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Because when it comes to white dudes, Asian girls are that easy...being white is generally a golden ticket into the trousers of your typical Asian girl...Once more with feeling. White guy here. Never dated or slept with an Asian girl. Yup, they love me long time.
USMCHokie Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Once more with feeling. Once more...but with choreographed dancing... I've been out of the loop the past month or so...same story, SD...?
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 White guy here. Never dated or slept with an Asian girl. Yup, they love me long time. Curious. Why have you never dated or slept with an Asian girl? Any particular reason/trait you are not attracted to of?
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 OP, I suspect the issue is that you don't relate to men that well. You label them based on their race as opposed to seeing them as individuals. It's impossible to say 'white men like this' or 'white men like that'. Each and every one I know is different and look for different things in a woman, including brains, personality, ethnicity, the size of her ass, anything. There is no such category as 'all white men'. Well, I wasn't like this to begin with but when you are made to repeatedly feel that you are being shut off because of your race, it is hard to be not race-conscious...
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 OP, Culturally, are you Asian? Were you born and raised in the US? Or in an Asian country? In my experience, white men who have genuine interest and a 'thing' for Asian women, will more likely go for the 'culturally' Asian lady (perhaps because they are attracted to the culture). But of course this is just my personal opinion and experience. Well I guess I fit in to neither or both. Hmm. I spent half of my life in Asia and half in US. I am familiar with both I guess. But if must, I guess I fit into the former better. But definitely not a fob lol Maybe that's why I attract neither? haha whatever now I am about to give up this sh*t. Seems like no cure - I can't do anything about this whole damn situation. bummer
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 But she wants hot white men. There. Yes, whether Asian or white, I want a "hot" man. Yes. haha
somedude81 Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Curious. Why have you never dated or slept with an Asian girl? Any particular reason/trait you are not attracted to of? Oh no, I am very attracted to some Asian girls. I've had crushes on Japanese, Korean and Chinese girls. They've all turned me down. I've defeinitley heard the stereotype that Asian girls love white guys, but maybe that only applies to the 6 foot tall, blonde hair blue eyed "white hot studs." I'm 5'6 brown hair, brown eyed, so I might as well be invisible.
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 Oh no, I am very attracted to some Asian girls. I've had crushes on Japanese, Korean and Chinese girls. They've all turned me down. I've defeinitley heard the stereotype that Asian girls love white guys, but maybe that only applies to the 6 foot tall, blonde hair blue eyed "white hot studs." I'm 5'6 brown hair, brown eyed, so I might as well be invisible. Haha. invisible. you're funny.
KraftDinner Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Sorry for the generalizations that will follow: I didn't read the whole thread. I live in Vancouver. Almost more Asians here than anyone else. A lot of young Asian girls dress like whores and hookers here. Sorry, but it's a fact. Tottering around on super-high heels, asses hanging out. Yes, way more than other races. And many wear these ridiculously long huge fake eyelashes that are so trashy looking. I don't know that they are any sluttier than anyone else. I doubt it. But they sure look the part. Go ahead and call me racist. But they do their race way more harm by looking like 'me love you long time' ping pong ball shooting trash stereotypes than I ever will by pointing it out. And this is NOT all Asian girls! Many (most) look quite respectable. But those trashy ones are pretty noticeable. And unless you live here, and go to certain places I go, you can't say I'm overgeneralizing. I'm just the only one who dares point it out. 1
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 Sorry for the generalizations that will follow: I didn't read the whole thread. I live in Vancouver. Almost more Asians here than anyone else. A lot of young Asian girls dress like whores and hookers here. Sorry, but it's a fact. Tottering around on super-high heels, asses hanging out. Yes, way more than other races. And many wear these ridiculously long huge fake eyelashes that are so trashy looking. I don't know that they are any sluttier than anyone else. I doubt it. But they sure look the part. Go ahead and call me racist. But they do their race way more harm by looking like 'me love you long time' ping pong ball shooting trash stereotypes than I ever will by pointing it out. And this is NOT all Asian girls! Many (most) look quite respectable. But those trashy ones are pretty noticeable. And unless you live here, and go to certain places I go, you can't say I'm overgeneralizing. I'm just the only one who dares point it out.\ Interesting. Because I am all serious and dress well but rather conservatively, and natural makeup, etc., I thought maybe I should dress up sluttier to attract "hot" guys. Hmm. 1
SayonaraItsuka Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 What's wrong with dating Asian men? There are plenty that are smart, outgoing, confident, and attractive.
SayonaraItsuka Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Honestly, white guys with Asian girls just looks weird.
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 What's wrong with dating Asian men? There are plenty that are smart, outgoing, confident, and attractive. There's nothing wrong. I just want certain characteristics and I have (so far) never met an asian man like that. I'm sure they are out there somewhere, but realistically, there are more white men who fit these: over 6', masculine, athletic, somewhat good looking, big pipi... etc.
crude Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Anna gets lots of hot White guys. http://i49.tinypic.com/2i0qkoz.jpg 1
TaurusTerp Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 Honestly, I doubt it's your race...you just don't really sound like you have any substance to your personality. You may be hot and educated, but are you interesting? Can you have a good conversation? If not, then...yeah, you're not long term gf material.
Author OompaLoompa Posted October 28, 2012 Author Posted October 28, 2012 you just don't really sound like you have any substance to your personality. that is extremely judgmental in an offensive way. as if you know what that even means lol
40 Fonzarelli Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 There's nothing wrong. I just want certain characteristics and I have (so far) never met an asian man like that. I'm sure they are out there somewhere, but realistically, there are more white men who fit these: over 6', masculine, athletic, somewhat good looking, big pipi... etc. Which is the reason why white guys tend to go for taller, athletic, more voluptuous white girls. They physically match better. Asian girls are usually short, petite, and thin.
TaurusTerp Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 that is extremely judgmental in an offensive way. as if you know what that even means lol Don't be offended, it's just the internet.... You can ask yourself if you're long term potential...in general, people give us the respect we deserve.
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