Mspink702 Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 So long story short my ex left me for another woman, although he did not admit this to me I found out by going through his phone and a few people told me. He even decided to move back to Cali (where he's from) to live closer to her, saying that he needs to find work and cant find anything out here in Vegas where we lived. It was all bullsh.t but whatever. Anyways I never told him I knew about this girl. I think because I was hoping there was a chance he would come back to me, and I didn't want to upset him by telling him I went through his phone. Stupid I know. So in the 3 weeks that we have been broken up we still talk every couple days and I am very nice to him, never have said anything mean or hurtful because I was hoping he would have a change of heart and miss me and come home. So today he calls me and tells me he got a job and started yesterday! I told him I was happy for him and we talked for another minute or so and that was it. So I'm sitting here thinking Now I know there is no chance of us getting back together and him coming home, so I decided to text him I said im really happy you got a job and I'm sure your girlfriend is happy too! I thought he might try and lie and say he doesn't have a girlfriend or what am I talking about but instead he got mad and he doesnt have time for my drama and im being a hater and said I needed to drink some haterade! I am not hating I just needed him to know that I know, and it seemed like the perfect time. So now I feel better because at least now he knows that I know about her, but I also feel like sh.t because I know for sure he's not coming back and he didnt even seem to care that I knew About her he didnt even try and spare my feelings just Said i was a Hater! Love just really really sucks!
gullibleme Posted October 28, 2012 Posted October 28, 2012 That sucks he reacted like that Mspink702...nothing you can do about it unfortunately...he is exhibiting guilt in my opinion. I sent a e-mail to my ex after we broke up and and said something like "Hmmm..what a difference a month makes...Well I guess I always knew what was going on ..good luck with your new girlfriend"..he responded with "well if you knew then why the reaction"...what an ass I thought...it's their guilty conscience lashing out...don't sweat it. Do you really want to be with someone like that? Can you ever trust him again if you got back together...things to think about...I wish you well!
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