PhillyDude Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Ok, I became friends with a female at my last job who happened to be one of my friends girlfriend. So I haven't talked to either of them in a while and I texted her the other day asking how she is doing. Then the day after I asked her what is her boyfriend's cell number so I can call him and she said...."I knew you was contacting me for a reason" HUH?? I met 5 years ago before I met her and we are friends also So I asked her.....Ok so what is his number? She then says...."I text him your number for him to call you since he is in class right now. WHAT IS THIS WOMAN BLOCKING ME FROM SPEAKING TO HER BOYFRIEND AND NOT GIVE ME HIS NUMBER? LOL
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 It sort of disturbs me that you don't understand what led her to behave that way. Giving someone's number away is no little thing. If a friend gave my number away to someone I potentially couldn't stand, I'd be extremely annoyed. If he wants to contact you, he will. 1
Author PhillyDude Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 It sort of disturbs me that you don't understand what led her to behave that way. Giving someone's number away is no little thing. If a friend gave my number away to someone I potentially couldn't stand, I'd be extremely annoyed. If he wants to contact you, he will. Her boyfriend and I worked together for 5 years and he has even invited me to their home to watch the game. She has this attitude like...."I thought you were texting me because you wanted to talk to me so why are you asking for his number? Why would I care if a friend got my number from another friend????
Author PhillyDude Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 Reality Check: They don't like you. Read between the lines. So she is basically saying "He doesn't like you so you might as well talk to me"
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 So she is basically saying "He doesn't like you so you might as well talk to me" She probably knows that he doesn't like you and just won't tell you. Either that, or she herself doesn't like you.
Author PhillyDude Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 She probably knows that he doesn't like you and just won't tell you. Either that, or she herself doesn't like you. Well that means my text would have been ignored right? Unless she wants to have a secret relationship with me without him knowing
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Well that means my text would have been ignored right? Unless she wants to have a secret relationship with me without him knowing No, because she probably has manners. I'm starting to get a better picture of why she just didn't give him your number even though you've known him that long...
Author PhillyDude Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 No, because she probably has manners. I'm starting to get a better picture of why she just didn't give him your number even though you've known him that long... I wonder how he would feel about me and his girlfriend talking to each other on the phone and texting?
suladas Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 It is possible that maybe she doesn't like you hanging out with him, and has nothing to do with him liking you or not. Some women don't like their guys having female friends at all.
Pompom Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 You don't have a right to demand his number from here. You can ask, and if she says no, suck it up. Friends or no friends. And if that guy wanted to be in touch with you, why was't he?
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 I wonder how he would feel about me and his girlfriend talking to each other on the phone and texting? I doubt very much he'd care because you two haven't gone anywhere near flirting. Pretty please, don't make an ass out of yourself. You seem capable of it.
Author PhillyDude Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 You don't have a right to demand his number from here. You can ask, and if she says no, suck it up. Friends or no friends. And if that guy wanted to be in touch with you, why was't he? We stopped working together and at the time it was no facebook. Then once I started working again we crossed paths again. So I was trying to reach out to him since we were good friends when working together.
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