InAFog Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 He's seeing and sleeping with somone else. Feels weird. When i found out i started to shake and had to catch my breath. But my heart didn't hurt. I didn't feel like crying or anything. Not really feeling jealous either. at least not of them sleeping together. a little about them hanging out and having fun doing the things we used to do. I hope that i continue to deal with it this well and i'm not just in a numb-out stage. It is kindof a relief, like now i have some kind of closure and a knowledge that it is really OVER. he has moved on and i can too.
january2011 Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 As painful as it might seem, this is good news because it allows you to kill that final bit of hope that you'll get back together. Take care of yourself. Do what you need to do to get from one moment to the next. If you need to give in to the emotions now and again, that's okay. But once you're done, get back up, shake it off and keep moving forward. As time goes on, things will start to look brighter. Especially if you implement NC and block off any other channels of news about him.
Author InAFog Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 Thanks January, it's good advice. I know that sooner or later (and probably sooner) i will have to really feel out the emotions i have about it. i admit i am a little scared to do so. but you're definitely right about it being a good thing in the end, to really end it.
Renard99 Posted October 29, 2012 Posted October 29, 2012 As January has said, it's a good thing and believe me, a similar thing happened with me. For me, having joined a normal dating website, I got an email about their 'sister site' about adult dating, and in that email was my ex advertising all she had to offer for all the men out there. Countless men thanking her for 'a good time' Now, if anything was going to put me off her, it was that! Heaven only knows how many many she's slept with in the last 18 months or so. It was enough for me to break whatever bond I still had to her.
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