Marine0311 Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 So I've been no contact for a bit. Shell like one of my posts here and there on Facebook, it's no big deal. When she's drunk or what I assume drunk because it's usually late at night on weekends, shell text me or call me starting a fight. Last weekend she called me telling me how she hates me and then texted me it. I ignored her.. Last night she basically told me to **** off and sent immature pictures of herself in a Halloween costume (kinda skimpy). I played it off cool and was joking at her telling her how she's just mad because she misses me a lot and thinks I'm moving on because I don't talk to her, so this is her way of getting my attention. She basically kept an immature text session going throughout the night she was at a party, so at least I can assume she wasn't with other dudes considering she was texting me when she was out drunk. I told her I'll see her thanksgiving when I'm home if she decides to grow up and be mature and if not I guess I'll see her when I get back from country.. Anyone can relate to this or have advice? 1
hinatticus Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 She sounds immature. She may be nice and sweet in real life, but judging from what you wrote, she comes across as immature. What you do with that is up to you.
january2011 Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 So I've been no contact for a bit. Not long enough. How she behaves and leads her life is not your concern anymore. Unfriend her from Facebook. Delete and block her texts. Why are you still allowing her to intrude upon your life? I'm guessing from what you've written and your username that you are currently deployed - surely you've got better things to focus on than an ex who just won't let go and who seems intent on stirring up drama?
Author Marine0311 Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 I really don't know why she hates me.. I talked to her today after she commented on one of my photos and asked her what I did and can she tell me, she said no she won't tell me. I then explained to her I'll be home in 3 weeks but it'll be my last time home before I deploy to Afghanistan January and she told me to shutup and she doesn't want to see me. This all hurts so much because our breakup was on good terms by the long distance was hard, and we still talked and it was fine, but in the last 2 weeks she did a complete 180 and hates me. I guess she let college get to her head idk.. It just hurts so much she was my first love and it sucks to know she doesn't even care to see me before I go to war. Plus she knows I'm an infantryman and my main job is to fight. I just miss how it used to be when she loved me and idk, I shouldn't want her back, but I do. I'm not going to let her know when I'm home or even talk to her again. I just hope the pain fades
Balzac Posted October 30, 2012 Posted October 30, 2012 My take: she fears for your safety. Facing the reality of your deployment is something too real for her.
Author Marine0311 Posted October 30, 2012 Author Posted October 30, 2012 Balzac, I don't get why though, like why react like this?! Is there anything I should do? I was thinking about just knocking on her door in my dress uniform when I get home surprising her. Maybe I shouldn't though, idk! And Monica, she's dealt with me being away before and handled it very well. I don't know what she is thinking, but I hope this isn't her way of dealing with me leaving because I'll be crushed if I don't see her before I leave. As for me, I'm ready to deploy mentally and have no worries. I'm actually excited, over there you seem to be in this weird peace of mind without dealing with stress and BS of normal life back in the states
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