LizC Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 I just went on a third date with a guy that I always have a good time with but the date always ends awkwardly. I know that part of this is my fault. I'm just not that great at the dating thing but I also thinking we're putting too much pressure on ourselves. The first two dates ended with a hug. Slightly awkward. The third date we went to dinner and then went back to his apartment and watched a movie. I spent the whole movie on his bed as close to him as possible and nothing happened. I know he likes me but I thought maybe he's just not comfortable yet so when he brought me home I figured I'd at least up to a kiss on the cheek. Fine except then at the last second I think he went in for the lips because I felt the glancing kiss. I so didn't know what to do so I didn't comment and I just told him to call me today. It's just so awkward. Part of me just wants to bring it up and make a little joke of it. Part of me thinks that if we take the end of the night part out of the equation, move the first kiss up to the middle of the date, then we can make it less awkward. Part of me just wants to give up. Then I get all worried that I'm giving him mixed signals and I know we really just need to talk about things but it's just so awkward and weird. I guess my question is can we recover from that botched first kiss? Do I need to just sit back and let him make the move? I know part of it is that in an effort not to make the situation awkward that I did in fact make it awkward.
xdahliax Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 You don't need to sit back and wait for him, he's already kissed you. Just be like "heyyyy! take 2!" and then kiss him. Ok, well, not exactly like that. But you know...
Author LizC Posted October 27, 2012 Author Posted October 27, 2012 I'm leaning toward a combination of the two. Like "hey, so we're both apparently awkward and ridiculous so let's just get this out of the way and move on".
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