Kat_luv Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 If your long term girlfriend cheated on you and you just got out of a relationship do you move on and start dating other girls or stay clear of all woman for a while?
todreaminblue Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 If your long term girlfriend cheated on you and you just got out of a relationship do you move on and start dating other girls or stay clear of all woman for a while? I think anyone who was in a long term relationship that ends because of cheating needs some serious time out.....throwing your self into dating to mend a heart wont work I think time out to process how you are feeling before attempting to feel for someone else male or female i think thsi stands...but some people go out and get straight back into it....i havent really heard any success stories though....men have emotions and get hurt just like females do they should heal......and then ease into it...unless of course the break up was a relief then it might be different.....they may be able to get out there sooner....its up to the individual and how badly they were hurt.it might be the case they will heal through dating to me that is a bit of a risk though..sorry if you wanted only men to answer but this is my opinion.....best wishes...deb...
curiouslyhuman Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 If your long term girlfriend cheated on you and you just got out of a relationship do you move on and start dating other girls or stay clear of all woman for a while? I suggest you stay clear for awhile. I dont think the gender means anything but as a man and it happening to me i was devastated. I did date for awhile, but it took me around 3 years to get over it, but i tried my best to not let it interfere with my other relationships. You just need the time it takes to realize that not all people cheat after youve been cheated on.
veggirl Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 NO ONE who is fresh out of a long term relationship is ready to date right away again. I don't care what the circumstances were....everyone needs that time alone to process / recover before dating again. I would run far away from a guy who was fresh out of a relationship, esp one that ended with him getting cheated on. Def unresolved feelings there, how could there not be?
mammasita Posted October 27, 2012 Posted October 27, 2012 Most men I know go for the good old fashioned rebound sex.
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